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Steph, Steph, Side-to-Side

5/9/2019

 
Steph Curry's wife is in hot social media water over comments she made about feeling unattractive to other men. As I read the comments about Ayesha Curry's comments on "Red Table Talk" about her insecurities, I became perturbed at some of the comments, especially from men.

We live in a society where women are objectified based on societal standards that don't seem to even be realistic. We have been reduced to being desirable based on how we look outwardly. We tear women down. On a daily basis.

Women, especially, are going broke, losing their minds, compromising their integrity, jumping into loveless relationships, all for the sake of being wanted. It is exhausting trying to be the right weight, height, class, color, natural, synthetic, made up, dressed up..you name it.

Then, along comes women like Curry who, with real tears in her eyes and heaviness in on her heart, are publicly open and honest about how they feel about all the madness. And what happens? She's crucified! The same men who objectify them (building what they envision as the "perfect woman") tear them to shreds and make them feel horribly worse about themselves than they did before. And the comments from some women! Girrrlll.....Is this a paradox or what!

Should Curry have not shared her feelings? You know, the very thing experts say you need to release or lose your mind? Should she have not commented publicly? And live up the the fake standard that society say celebs are? What are women supposed to do when they feel vulnerable? Less desirable, unfulfilled? Curry is 32 with three kids, a strong value system and a husband who gets more attention from other women on a daily basis than she could ever give, and we, as a society, are telling her that she has no right to want to feel attractive by no other male species if it is not her husband. Does this means he's not making her feel attractive? How come we haven't heard from her husband?

Her "need" doesn't come from a lack of talent, money, fame or material possessions. It comes from human nature and needing to feel needed. Period. 

If nothing else, from this moment, I have learned that you can't win for losing.

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M. Mason 1st
5/9/2019 11:08:25 am

This video threw me off a little bit. My first question is why would she even feel that way? She is a married woman , but she isn’t the only married woman who feels insecure because they don’t get attention from other men. How does her husband feel about this? There are certain things that you should and shouldn’t say on camera. With her saying what she said, the media is having a field day with it, and of course they will blow it out of proportion. And of course her husband is going to get attention from other females, he’s a great basketball player with mad money. Whatever issues they have in their marriage is between them.

Z. James 8th
5/9/2019 11:18:48 pm

I infer that Steph is either to focused to make it to Finals to address the problem or to ashamed that he wasn't giving his wife attention.

J. Gonzalez 2nd
5/10/2019 06:56:09 pm

Step curry has been playing ball for a minute now and Ayesha knows what comes with that. She said that she feels insecure cause she doesn’t get attention from other guys that aren’t her husband like curry gets from other girls not because he doesn’t give her enough attention.

Jniquea jackosn
5/10/2019 11:04:20 pm

I don’t think so Stephen is any of that . I believe this is something deep down in side of Ayesha . This is not on curry.

Marqueshia Richardson Richardson
5/10/2019 11:53:25 pm

Honestly I wish that women were not held by society and made to feel less than what they really are when they really are Queen's they are valuable God created them.

J. Griffith 2nd
5/11/2019 10:32:35 am

I agree because ever since he’s been playing basketball, it means the world to him.

M.Horton 5th
5/13/2019 11:15:53 am

I agree with the second statement, I think Steph is thinking about what he did to make his wife feel this way.

J. Gonzalez 2nd
5/10/2019 06:53:30 pm

I totally agree with you. As a married woman with three kids she shouldn’t feel that she thinks somethings wrong with her because she doesn’t get the type of attention from guys that her husband gets from girls, one of the most popular NBA players. People have mad respect for Steph not only because of his career but because he’s a good guy overall and from a mans p.o.v I wouldn’t try and be a home wrecker and try to get with Ayesha if she has a family with her and her husband being both very successful and he treats her right! She shouldn’t have said that.. Honestly makes her sound selfish

J. Griffith 2nd
5/11/2019 10:33:42 am

I agree because she has standards that she abides to no matter what.

Z. Crawford
5/12/2019 09:04:40 pm

I really feel like she just not nothing can satisfy this girl .

Lloyd Trimble
5/13/2019 08:32:48 am

I agree completely it’s out of respect, no one is going to try and flirt with Ayesha because they know her husband.

D. Hearne 8th
5/10/2019 08:47:53 pm

Had you done some research on the topic you would know that Steph backed her up on what she said. He wasn’t upset because he knew what his wife meant he knows that his wife loves him unconditionally. Only a insecure man would have a problem with what Ayesha said.

T.Harris 6th
5/10/2019 10:14:11 pm

Cant really agree on what you said because that is not reason for her actions.

Marqueshia Richardson Richardson
5/10/2019 11:54:05 pm

I feel like when women become a type of invaluable or insecure person they should just start changing the way they think and maybe later address but keeping it modest even

D. Jones 3rd
5/10/2019 11:10:15 pm

I AGREE!! She wanted attention and now she is getting the wrong type of attention. A married women who wants to get attention by other men. Yea that makes sense.

T. Jones 2nd
5/16/2019 09:32:32 am

Y’all not understanding what she is saying ! Just because she is married does not mean she can’t wanf attention. Everybody wants to feel that others admire them in some way. Especially when she see a million women crushing on her husband & nobody doing it over here. Thats like you posting your favorite picture & it get no likes....

M Taylor 1st period
5/10/2019 11:44:35 pm

People run to social media toooooooooo much about personal stuff that you shouldn’t have everyone knowing *rolls eyes*

K. Brown 8th hour
5/11/2019 08:43:08 pm

What defines what people shouldn't know abou . It is her right to openly speak on an issue that involves herself and personal issues.

Z. Crawford
5/12/2019 09:06:03 pm

Some things should just be left unsaid because everyone looks at what she said in different ways..

Lloyd Trimble
5/13/2019 08:36:07 am

I agree that is a problem they could have talked about in private, everyone did not have to know about that

T. Jones 2nd
5/16/2019 09:34:12 am

Because she ran to social media means to bash her? She is just openly expressing her feelings! She was also in a interview, she didn’t just make a post!

H Aleman 8th period
5/11/2019 12:33:54 pm

See, you missed the entire point. This woman was being open about her insecurities. She has a right to do that, she deserves to be listened to. It isn't her fault that the media is taking her comments and twisting them around.

M. Chavez 2nd pd
5/12/2019 04:34:37 pm

I agreed, i think other men’s opinions of her shouldn’t matter to her. She shouldn’t be seeking attention from other men, only her husband.

L.Allen 2nd period
5/12/2019 07:13:21 pm

I disagree, I believe the reason that Stephen get so much attention is because of his good looks and features, and less of about his money. Ayesha has a great deal of money and she is a independent entrepreneur but the point is that she don't feel like a magnet to other men despise her lifestyle and financial stability which can sometimes cause serious depression and insecurities no matter the relationship status.

D. Gibson jr. 1st period
5/13/2019 07:53:10 am

I have been asking the same question what made her say that ? Especially on national tv in front of millions of people who feels that they always have insert they two cents into everything lol. She has a husband who literally shows her off everyday like shes a championship trophy and she wants more attention then that?

K. Allen 8th pd
5/14/2019 02:06:06 pm

I agree with you she shouldn’t have displayed her insecurities to the camera. Somethings are better left in the privacy of your home.

J. Griffith 2nd
5/9/2019 03:10:23 pm

Ayesha should have married someone who would give her the attention she needs. She shouldn't feel like she had to marry a NBA basketball player. She can make her own decisions on what would be better for her. Rather being in a loveless relationship, or being with someone who would give her the time of day. Women don't really have to marry basketball players, most just choose to do so.

C.Jones 6th
5/9/2019 07:57:38 pm

They e been "talking" since before college, so idk how she would've know he would be that cold. And she not even the golddigger type.

C.Jones 6th
5/9/2019 08:00:49 pm

*have

Jniquea jackson
5/10/2019 11:05:34 pm

I do agree. Ayesha is a women some woman should look to . She just have some insecurities.

S. Pirzada 6th
5/10/2019 04:47:00 pm

Steph and Ayesha have known each other since high school and married early. Way before he was an NBA player. Also I don't find it fair to say she should marry someone else who could give her attention. Partnership is the key formula to grow a marriage, not just love. She said it makes her undesirably insecure that other women flaunt over him and wants to catered like he does.

K. Brown 8th hour
5/11/2019 08:45:22 pm

It is being said that her husband is not fully the issue though. More so that she feels that he gets these heavy amounts of attention that she herself knows she could not supply him and she gets nothing (in comparison to her husband) and it makes her feel empty.

T. Young 2nd period
5/12/2019 09:00:29 pm

I strongly agree with you that people shouldn't knock her down and say that she should've been with someone else because no one knows what they future holds and how one day you can go from a regular person to a super star.

K. Allen 8th pd
5/14/2019 02:07:54 pm

Of course other women will flaunt over him and it’s not solely for his looks. He is a NBA so of course he will get more attention from the opposite sex than she would.

D.Gadson 6th
5/10/2019 07:04:59 pm

I disagree because they been talking before the NBA, so how would she know he was going to make it ? 🤔

M. Hollywood 2nd
5/10/2019 07:49:47 pm

This comment shows that you don’t keep up basketball. Steph and his wife have been dating/married wayyyyyyyy before he got in the nba.

S. Lara 6th period
5/10/2019 09:10:32 pm

I disagree with you because of your first sentence. Even if she married someone her gave her the attention she craves there is much more that goes into a partner than just that. Also like in the video she may not want it from other people it’s nice to know it’s there, he received that kind of attention why shouldn’t she.

T.Harris 6th
5/10/2019 10:16:00 pm

You say she don’t have to marry a star as if he was a star his whole life. They grew into a love that got stronger but she couldn’t handle what came with it .

K Eagans 3rd
5/12/2019 12:03:36 pm

I don’t agree. She seems like she’s in love to me. She was saying that it would be nice to know that other men find her attractive other than her husband.

M. Chavez 2nd pd
5/12/2019 04:35:53 pm

Yeah, if she feels unattractive, it’s something that they should speak about in private, not on tv, where she told millions of people.

L.Allen 2nd period
5/12/2019 07:24:56 pm

Both Ayesha and Stephen been together since they was fifteen years old so it was basically love at first site. And it is kinda not fair to judge her and say she knew what she was getting into because she didn't and when you are in a real relationship where the presence of love is strong you are willing to make sacrifices and despise Stephen mom already going through she was willing an smart enough to let her experience the process herself without giving her a blueprint of the same lifestyle.In addition, neither Ayesha and Stephen knew that they would be where they are now with all the success they was bless with because at the end of the day life can throw a lot of curve balls.

T.Young 2nd period
5/12/2019 08:58:22 pm

No one knows what the future may hold, so you can't say she "she should have married someone who would give her the attention she needs" because he was giving that attention before and that's why she stays. However, everyone minds do wonder about the unknowing of wondering if people are looking and you can't be mad at them for it.

D. Gibson jr. 1st period
5/13/2019 07:56:09 am

Even tho shes married to a basketball superstar he stills shows her off a lot over social media. They met way before he went into the league. Even when he’s in the NBA he stills shows her love and affection as if he wasn’t in the league.

C. Hamilton 5th
5/16/2019 09:48:58 am

She’s not talking about getting attention from Stephen . She talking about getting attention from other men , like how Stephen gets attention from other women . She wants to feel like she’s still attractive to the world . I’m pretty sure Stephen gives her lots of attention, because he posted that he was proud of her for sharing out what she was feeling inside .

D Gibson jr. 1st period
5/9/2019 05:59:13 pm

I feel that steph being in the playoffs is already alot for him to handle his wife Ayesha Curry feels insecure about herself if u ask me. My question is what made her feel this way about herself if she has a loving husband who shows her off all over social media? What more attention do you need? I feel as if this was something she shouldve kept to herself because theirs alot of rumors going around.

C.Jones 6th
5/9/2019 07:59:50 pm

I'm pretty sure they talked about it, she goes to every game but it is still a lot to deal with?

N. Medina 6th
5/10/2019 12:28:17 pm

Agree but I also feel like she should be able to express what she wants without being hated for. I’m pretty neutral on the whole issue. There is pros and cons to both sides.

J. Perez 6th
5/10/2019 01:13:42 pm

Maybe she just wants more time with him after all he is getting busier and since he's more stressed he might be keeping to himself more than usual. Its sweet that he shows her off that should help her feel better if not then there's got to be more to it. She's suffering from her insecurities and sometimes it takes a little more to get rid of them.

N.Brown8th
5/10/2019 01:27:34 pm

SOOOOOOOOOO...... Ayesha is her own woman and when your around other women that you feel you can express your self around you do it.It doesn'y matter if it was public or not the fact that she expressed her insecruities could help other women dealing with the same situation .Rumors are just rumors the people that entertain them are just ignorant because if you haven't heard it word for word from that person then they don't matter.She's not seeking ATTENTION she's seeking self-recongition she wants to know that she's not only attractive o her husband but others as well.

T.Tate 8th
5/15/2019 01:05:18 pm

I agree, I believe she should have spoke what she felt. Why should she hold it on? I’m glad she spoke her mind because I’m pretty sure it’s many women that probably feel the same way but Ayesha was bold enough to say it.

D.Gadson 6th
5/10/2019 07:08:37 pm

I agree they should have had a talk first before taking it to the social media to prevent rumors.

M. Hollywood 2nd
5/10/2019 07:46:16 pm

Just because she is a celebrity doesn’t mean she shouldn’t be able to publicly express how she feels!

D. Hearne 8th
5/10/2019 08:44:14 pm

Relationships are not supposed to be something that’s plastered all over the Internet. Just because he posts a photo doesn’t show that he loves her. I’m not saying he doesn’t but a Instagram post is nothing. You saying that she should’ve kept her opinion to herself shows how little respect you have for women. Secondly, who gives a flying flip about his stupid play offs. If he’s putting his job before his wife, then it makes 100% sense why she feels the way she does. This is the most ignorant comment I’ve seen in any of the mixed inks that I have read. You sound like all those other men on the Internet belittling her for what she had to say and telling us how she feels.

T.Tate 8th
5/15/2019 01:08:16 pm

I agree just a photo doesn’t classify love for someone. I’m glad she was brave enough to let her feelings be known. Why should she hide how she feel?

H Aleman 8th period
5/11/2019 12:36:26 pm

I see you missed some vital points, too. It doesn't matter that she has a husband. It is human nature to desire approval, attention or praise. Insecurities aren't solved just by being shown off on social media. They are much h deeper than what you think they are, and she has a right to speak about her insecurities without being crucified for them.

K Eagans 3rd
5/12/2019 12:08:41 pm

I think a lot of women that are married feel the same as Ayesha. It’s definitely think it is some type of insecurity.

M.Robinson 1st link
5/13/2019 07:50:34 am

I agree most women need that attention and need to feel loved everyday by their man but Ayesha has to understand he’s more focus on winning the finals

C.Jones 6th
5/9/2019 07:53:31 pm

Ayesha has the right to Express her opinions openly but it doesn't mean we have to agree. She feels unattractive, which she isn't, but once Steph wins the Finals and makes another baby. How will she feel then? She shouldnt be worried about anybody's preference anyway, she has a whole family that I'm pretty sure think she's the most beautiful woman in the world in and out. Everybody has their insecurities but I feel like once you hit a certain age you should just be oblivious to your physical appearance. I'm not saying just throw yourself away, but you shouldnt be worried about how the world perceives you.

Z. James 8th
5/9/2019 11:16:38 pm

Its hard to not worry about what people's preference when it is said many times, or not even addressed. Self esteem not only comes from within but also from those who encourage you.

S. Lara 6th period
5/10/2019 09:14:45 pm

I agree, she openly talked about her insecurities and many people gave her hate for expressing them. They gave her hate for wanting to know she’s attractive, that doesn’t mean she wants anything else from anyone else. The same way people can bring your self esteem down they can bring it up.

K.Shavers
5/10/2019 10:44:48 am

Ayesha Curry just saying the duh obvious. If you had a famous and admired partner, of course you'd feel some insecurity. And of course we all want attention. So much hypocrisy and face-saving by people when it comes to relationships, love, and sex.

L. Delley
5/10/2019 12:52:41 pm

Ayesha feels unattractive that’s a problem with herself only she can give herself self confidence.

C. Hamilton 5th
5/16/2019 09:55:54 am

I agree . She don’t have to worry about what others think of her looks wise . I feel like as long as her husband still thinks she’s beautiful and still gives her that same energy then it’s cool.

J. Perez 6th
5/10/2019 01:09:56 pm

Agreed she shouldn't be worried about anyone else's preference but what if your significant other stops treating you the way they did when you first started dating. Flowers and compliments all being rained down on you. You feel confident, you feel like you're hot stuff but once they stop it's like do you even see me in the same light. A lot of couples go through that phase,some make it work others keep quiet and become unhappy. You also need to see what effort her family's putting in to their relationship that could make her feel that way.

I. Florence 8th
5/12/2019 10:54:08 pm

People, including Ayesha, should consider how the world perceives them, but not to the point of insecurity. Whether society accepts it or not, image is powerful. It affects the way people view you and treat you. From her personality, her sense of style, her perspective on family, societal issues, and her talent (cooking), to many she is deemed as the golden standard for how many women and men think a wife should be. This is all done through her image. Without the image she portrays, people would not perceive her as this super wife and mom. If she was not perceived as a super wife and mom, would she have been given the same opportunities or the same attention? Would she have been given the opportunity to appear on television shows and commercials? Would she have started her own cooking ware line? Would she have started a clothing line for babies and clothes? Would she even be relevant if it were not for the way the world perceives her? Probably not.

Z. James 8th
5/9/2019 11:10:39 pm

This is an example of how you can have everything, but still feel unhappy.Your happiness comes from human nature/interaction. Despite all the material things you may have, that sense of attention will always be there. People want to feel wanted and appreciated, not seen as a physical body. Ayesha Curry is unhappy due to a lack of attention. If she was provided with the love and appreciation that she needed there would not be a problem.

N. Medina 6th
5/10/2019 12:25:49 pm

Agreed, but she could also get herself out of this situation if it is really taking a toll on her. She can make herself happy again.

M.Robinson 1st link
5/11/2019 10:10:31 pm

I disagree because she can’t make herself happy again unless steph show her the attention she wants

L. Delley
5/10/2019 12:51:08 pm

I agree she just want some attention from Steph.

N.Brown8th
5/10/2019 01:11:05 pm

I agree to an certain extent ,yes she has the life that most people would be happy to have but she also has the life people regret having. You csn't blame life because you made the choice to live it that way.Ayesha is longing for attention because she is not the center of attention she has so much on her plate that she no longer see the reasons behind having a happy life. Her life is now surround my celebrities who are wealthy and who are driven by money so in that industry loveis only shown to people thta publize it.

K.phillips
5/10/2019 01:20:18 pm

Basically .. like you have so much and yet you begging for more

I. Florence 8th
5/12/2019 11:09:40 pm

The video does not give us enough information to certify that she is not provided with love and appreciation. People forget that Ayesha is 32 years old (still young), married at a young age, has three kids, and has been with the same man since she was a teenager. She has not experienced the the same attention from men like other single women, because she has been in a relationship for most of her life. In addition, she is married to one of the most famous and respected basketball players in the world. A lot of men and women do not realize this, but sometimes a man will only respect women because of her relationship to a man. For example, a man may ask a woman for her number. She declines and says "Sorry, I have a boyfriend" or "I'm married". Then the man will respectfully leave her alone (this does not always happen, but you should get the point). Most likely he left her alone out of respect for her partner and their relationship. The same applies to Ayesha. A lot of men do not give her the attention she looking for because they have respect for her husband and their marriage.

C. Swann 1st
5/16/2019 10:12:19 pm

Who said she wasn’t receiving it? It’s societies fault. You can’t tell me you don’t enjoy attention or praise. EVERYONE DOES! She’s a woman that is very known yet she doesn’t receive the attention like her peers. Imagine being around celebrity wives like Draya Michelle and her talking about all the men that are commenting things like “Marry me” and “I’ll pay big bucks for nude images” and all you receive is “what kind of spice did you use Mrs. Steph Curry”

N. Medina 6th
5/10/2019 12:24:16 pm

I think she can express her opinions and feelings publicly and shouldn’t be talked bad about. I believe it’s okay to want to be attractive to other men, have that sense of confidence and power. She isn’t cheating or anything. But then again if she feels she isn’t getting enough attention, more than she already has, she could leave him. It’s all based on her own decisions. She is choosing this lifestyle.

A crow 5th
5/12/2019 11:38:55 pm

I feel like she shouldn't announce her insecurities to the world.

C. Swann 1st
5/16/2019 10:14:36 pm

I 100% agree. The people who have issues with the post are people that attention seek themselves. People that buy designer clothes and are obnoxious and belligerent Day in and day out FOR ATTENTION!

L. Delley
5/10/2019 12:50:16 pm

Ayesha is not the only one with this problem even if she is bringing it to our attention. Somethings money can’t buy. She have been knowing Steph since high school she should of been said something about how she feel.

K.phillips
5/10/2019 01:21:51 pm

Every girl has insecurities and they all come in different forms .

D. Hearne 8th
5/10/2019 08:38:09 pm

Even when she did say how she feels, she still couldn’t put into words because it’s not something that can easily be explained. The response to what she had to say would’ve been the exact same, then and now.

M Taylor 1st period
5/10/2019 11:54:54 pm

Just like almost every girl post a picture for the worlds approval or complements

she doesn’t get that n she’s bothered I find that so dumb.. why can you feel beautiful because you believe you are

J. Perez 6th
5/10/2019 01:03:30 pm

Curry has every right to express her feelings. There are a lot of people out there who are experiencing the same situation and it'll help create a bigger sense of community and support. The most challenging part about feeling attractive is getting past your insecurities and accepting yourself for who you are. You probably rolled your eyes at that because society standards are so ingrained into your mind and you've heard it all before. "Love yourself, you're beautiful" yeah right but no, really, looking at yourself in the mirror and realizing how great you are and how so worth it you are helps break down those insecurities and yeah sure it's a slow process but you learn to love yourself.

I Jones 6th Period
5/10/2019 08:05:46 pm

I agree, She has every right to express her feelings . Her feelings are important too.

K. Gomez 6th
5/10/2019 11:08:28 pm

I agree everyone has the right to open up and talk about their feelings about a certain topic so I really admire the fact that she had the courage talk about her insecurities in public.

N.Brown8th
5/10/2019 01:06:42 pm

Ayesha Curry has a pretty busy life with handling her cooking channel,3 children,and husband traveling with the Golden State Warriors.Sometimes i think her life as a wife,mother and cook gets over whelming and she needs time for herself.A women doesn't need people to validate who she is but sometimes she longs for some attention and comments.Yes she's happily married but that doesn't mean her getting comments from other men is her cheating or not respecting her husband.She has so much on her plate that just one little comment would just mesn the world to her.People have no right to comment on her honesty if that can't be opened minded about her emotions.

I Jones 6th Period
5/10/2019 08:04:00 pm

I totally agree, being a mom, having her own cooking show AND having a traveling basketball husband can be too much sometimes and she gets insecure seeing women around her husband.

K.phillips 6th
5/10/2019 01:19:31 pm

I don’t understand why she feels like she needs attention from other men . Why need attention from men when you have a whole husband? this just ridiculous. girls want to much from men and try there hardest to please them . . But the comments she’s receiving of a little to much . She don’t have to be bashed the way she is . She has feelings

D. Hearne 8th
5/10/2019 08:35:37 pm

I’m sure if boys stop talking to you, even just as friends, you would feel some type of way. Attention doesn’t always have to be sexual, it could be admiration.

M. Cain 2nd
5/10/2019 11:06:51 pm

I feel like we all say that now that we don’t care about attention from anyone else but our significant other. But I’m reality if the only attention you’ve gotten for the past 9 years if from your man.. I think you’d start to feel some type of way to.

I. Chancellor 8th period
5/12/2019 11:37:23 am

In agreement, she should get that from her husband and not from other men. That is so right, if you can’t uplift each other, then that means something is wrong with that relationship. I don’t think that so wants too much, she just wants to be validated, however she is going about this the wrong way. In agreement, belittling her is wrong, because she has feelings. Lastly, people who are married need to re-evaluate their marriage, to talk about their insecurities, so they can fix them.

S. Pirzada 6th
5/10/2019 04:11:04 pm

I do understand where Ayesha's insecurity coming from. She says she get sees other beautiful women surround her husband. As if he's the trophy of the relationship and it starting to feel like he's out of her league. She also wants be flattered by other men and have the similar treatment. Now specifically "It would be nice." It's interesting to say that women want validation no matter the effort to build self-esteem. This controversy that we shouldn't value others' validation, instead you must learn to love youself. It's sounds problematic, but no shame she had to say it.

J. Gonzalez 2nd
5/10/2019 06:46:25 pm

I’m not gonna say I agree with you too much cause I feel like since Ayesha’s married that she shouldn’t want the attention like Steph gets. I get that it may feel good to get that kind of attention, but since she has a Husband and three kids the only attention she needs is from her Family and friends. She said “I don’t want it, but it’d be nice to know someone’s looking” and honestly that to me shows that she isn’t fully fulfilled in her marriage. That she seeking for more than what’s there.

D. Hearne 8th
5/10/2019 08:20:21 pm

She’s not seeking attention. She isn’t strutting around in revealing clothes, saying scandalous things. Of billions of people, having only ONE person, from what you observe, that finds you attractive is off putting. It could make you question the way you look and carry yourself. That’s where her insecurities come from.

D. Tonche 8th pd
5/10/2019 10:35:24 pm

I understand where you are coming from, I think everyone is like this.

S. Pirzada 6th
5/10/2019 10:46:16 pm

When I see how she described that sort of attention from Steph, I feel like it meant say "I could have any guy I want and still turn them down."

B. Haynes 8th
5/10/2019 11:53:13 pm

I don’t even think it’s that. Ayesha seems very insecure since she doesn’t receive attention from other men, and that’s completely okay. It’s human, actually. If her husband is the only person who acknowledges her looks, then of course she would feel a little insecure about her physical appearance.

D.Gadson 6th
5/10/2019 07:16:10 pm

I think she is insecure and have low self esteem. She see all the women surrounding her man and giving him comments and she feel like she’s out of his league. Although she has a whole husband so why are you wanting other man complimenting her? On the other hand she has her point of view on her relationship. The comments that people are saying is to much for her to handle right now.

j earl
5/10/2019 08:43:13 pm

I agree with that one too because low self-esteem against plenty of other women can make you unattractive. If you know your man loves you baby girl you better Rock

K. Brown 2nd
5/10/2019 10:32:19 pm

Yes.Thats obvious that she does feel that way but , that doesn’t make it right for people to take advantage of her weakness . That’s only going to make it worse . We shouldn’t break down the people that need help the most ,especially our black women .

D. Tonche 8th pd
5/10/2019 10:33:39 pm

To some extent I agree with you. I do agree with you when you stated that Ayesha’s self esteem if tied to the opinion of the public, everyone is like that. However, I believe she’s insecure because a lot of women give attention to her husband who wouldn’t?

M. Hollywood 2nd
5/10/2019 07:44:51 pm

Personally, I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. She is expressing herself and that shouldn’t be a problem. However, I think she has to realize that Steph is a well respected man. Therefore, men aren’t going to be throwing themselves at her because of the level of respect they have for him. In addition, I don’t think she’s insecure everyone likes compliments and the feeling to know someone is attracted to you. I don’t think she should be bashed for expressing herself.

M. Cain 2nd
5/10/2019 11:03:09 pm

I agree, she’s not saying she’s trying to get with other men. But a couple compliments here and there would be nice.

I. Jones Per.6
5/10/2019 08:00:49 pm

Just like any other person in america, she is entitled to her opinions and feelings . Period. I do not think she is wrong for sharing how she feels, I think it’s wrong because people aren’t actually listening to what she’s saying . People are quick to judge other people . I’ve watched her video expressing her opinion and read some of the comments and I was disappointed with what some people were saying.

D. Hearne 8th
5/10/2019 08:31:04 pm

Humans need attention by nature. Sometimes one person isn’t enough, which is why so maybe young girls feel the need to pose this way and that to catch people’s eyes. Some have even went as far as photoshop. This is a cry for validation. If any of you feel that her opinion is outlandish, delete social media and stop dressing yourself in flashy, usually fake, designer clothes. As for these comments, this situation goes to further prove that men and women have vastly different perceptions. Many men are saying that she shouldn’t want another man’s attention and they’re saying that because it’s a manifestation of their own insecurities. Also, Steph did comment on the situation, though it was a mere Instagram post.

j earl
5/10/2019 08:41:53 pm

I believe that women that don't get enough attention had a rough childhood so they try to improve it was giving more than one person their attention and energy. That's why people are going gay

C. San Roman
5/12/2019 04:34:51 pm

Although I know you did not mean no harm, it was very idiotic of you to say that people are going gay for attention, that's just dumb. You either are gay (or bi) or not, you dont get to "go gay" sure you might expirement but that's it, nothing more, nothing less, think twice about how you word things.

R. Garcia 8th pd
5/10/2019 10:18:54 pm

You are right it is human nature to want, even to the extent of wanting attention. You can see it in young children acting out for their parents attention to adults asking for opinions through posts in social media.

D.Molo8th
5/12/2019 08:40:32 pm

Yeah this has became a norm in society. It’s all about attention now.

K. Gomez 6th
5/10/2019 10:56:39 pm

I agree it’s ironic how when men gain so much attention from a lot a women they are praised but when a female gains just as much attention they get called derogatory names.

j earl 1st
5/10/2019 08:40:31 pm

I believe some things she was saying basically they have been together since she was 15 age doesn't matter me and always change. Also every relationship is it perfect it might be picture perfect but don't get too carried away slow down in weight women have more common sense about relationships than men

S. Lara 6th period
5/10/2019 09:23:22 pm

I think it is good she spoke out about her insecurities on feeling as though she does not get enough attention and many would be able to relate to that. It’s human nature to want attention or the thought of having attention however that does not mean she would act on it if she received it and i believe that’s were most of the hate comes from. No marriage is perfect and i’m sure there is much love between them and for people saying she should’ve married someone else a partnership is built off of much more than just attention.

R. Garcia 8th pd
5/10/2019 10:15:57 pm

I agree with your statement ever since this amazing successful woman is only recognized for her marriage and is referred as “Steph Curry’s wife”.

K.Brown 2nd pd
5/10/2019 10:29:34 pm

Yes.I do believe the reason why people took it the wrong way is ,because they believe she is looking to entertain that attention . But the gag is , she only wants to feel attractive to more than one person . Not everyone needs just one person to tell them how special they are to them ,some people need outsiders to back up and support that one persons belief .

T cherry 6th period
5/10/2019 10:33:54 pm

Her personal insicurities or for others? Also, I feel like her husband wants to say something but just didn't care to

R. Leal 2nd
5/10/2019 10:53:54 pm

I agree, "a partnership is built off of much more than just attention." They both have the understanding and trust needed to act maturely about the topic.

G Musa 6th period
5/10/2019 11:59:08 pm

Her insecurities shouldn’t be headlines honestly she should have kept it in the house or with her friends because people judge too much despite rather or not she puts it out there.

R. Garcia 8th pd
5/10/2019 10:13:24 pm

I have noticed that it is a deep rooted societal structure that women have to make sacrifices for others. Either as mothers or wives, women often have to sacrifice their own desires for the satisfaction of others. I mention this because Ayesha Curry is a phenomenal career women that only recognized because of her husband. In addition, they must conform to the double-standards in place and their self esteem is forever tied in the opinions of others. For example, Ayesha is placed in the limelight facing a multitude of different and often harsh opinions. I think this type of mindset is a consequence of being in the spotlight for so long.

T cherry 6th period
5/10/2019 10:28:26 pm

I noticed his you used the phrase "have to" i don't agree on how anyone has to do anything. Socially there is a constant pressure for women to look a certain way. No one is forced to go buy sacrifice themselves to anything.

K.Brown 2nd
5/10/2019 10:23:34 pm

Ayesha Curry had the balls to say what every other celebrity wife might feel ,but are too afraid to admit .I can’t imagine how much it took to put her insecurities out in the open . I mean if we’re being honest, most celebrities aren’t that vulnerable and open to talk about the things they experience.Most celebrities feel the need to paint a picture for society ;that way their safe from judgement ,humiliation ,and stress. It’s saddening to see how society can take advantage of her truthfulness and bash her for it .

Z Holmes Pd 3
5/10/2019 11:57:42 pm

Exactly!!!! I applaud her for saying how she really feels and not being afraid to say she doesn't feel like she gets attention.

D.Molo8th
5/12/2019 08:41:57 pm

I agree. This was a very bold move to make and with her husbands stature it put more emphasis on what she was actually trying to say.

D.Molo8th
5/12/2019 09:25:55 pm

I agree. This was a very bold move to make and with her husbands stature it put more emphasis on what she was actually trying to say.

T.Harris 6th
5/10/2019 10:23:34 pm

This video was Hy dead out disrespectful. In some parts I understand but Ayesha could of June talk to her husband instead of America. People will find anything to taunt about then this video made it easy. A woman should have to love herself first then the ones around but she messed up by forgetting to lover herself. She wants the wrong attention your husband should be the only one you care to have their attention.

T cherry 6th period
5/10/2019 10:24:57 pm

She as a human has the right to voice on any situation. So that's exactly what she did... But she has a larger veiwing then most people and she knows that. The internet is full of bias trolls waiting to attack on any subject. Of course what she is saying is right.. People do need to stop setting sutch a high standard for women.

R. Leal 2nd
5/10/2019 10:50:17 pm

I agree, she should be able to voice any of her insecurities if she wants to . Of course the internet will always find something to say since they like to hide behind a screen.

M. Sanchez 6thpd.
5/10/2019 10:55:28 pm

It’s not so much standards more like people are always waiting for someone to make a wrong move so they can call them out. It’s not okay but it’s the only way people know how communicate unfortunately through the internet.

D. Jones 3rd
5/10/2019 11:08:19 pm

I agree that she has a voice. Everyone does but there is also certain ways you can go handle things and that was not a way to handle that.

D. Tonche 8th pd
5/10/2019 10:30:26 pm

Ever since Ayesha Curry is in the spotlight it is understandable that she measures her success or even self-esteem to the opinions of others. Everybody is like that. I am like that. That is perfectly normal, what is not fine is continuing to have this outlook in life. At some point you have to understand that the opinions of others do not matter, and you have to keep moving forward.

M. Sanchez 6th pd.
5/10/2019 10:52:43 pm

I can understand your point of view it is very unhealthy to see yourself in that perspective. She’s also expecting way to much from other people which she shouldn’t do because people will only let you down.

R.Hannon 6th pd
5/10/2019 11:16:05 pm

Omg, as I'm reading everyone response it makes me mad. This is just probably a learning experience. She may have needed that to open her eyes and ears from different woman viewpoint and hear other thoughts besides hers. I'm sure other woman across the nation including famous people have been through this rodeo multiple times. Listen to what Jada says.

G Musa 6th period
5/10/2019 11:57:50 pm

I agree because everyone compares themselves to others to see how far they are ahead or behind someone, it’s perfectly normal and should low key be kept to ourselves rather than telling the whole world.

I. Chancellor 8th period
5/12/2019 12:02:40 pm

That is so great, that she is a vocal person in our present world. With all honesty, everybody is like that and that’s what we need to stop doing. To be honesty, she needs to get out that phrase of validation. We all need to, because this will continue to hold us back from our true potential. Lastly, a husband and wife should never look for outside attention.

Asiah.r
5/12/2019 01:37:45 pm

True all she needs to do is think that she's beautiful and thats enough

R. Leal 2nd
5/10/2019 10:45:30 pm

I don't think it was a bad idea for her to publicly speak out about her insecurities. Although I am not very informed on the topic, I do know that humans often crave attention or affection. It's not wrong of her to want attention on her as well. If she is strong enough to speak out about this topic publicly -knowing her husband can see- then she is not afraid of what others say about her relationship. I'm sure she loves her husband very much, but wanting attention or a couple of compliments here and there is normal.

D. Jones 3rd
5/10/2019 11:07:17 pm

I disagree. She could have went to him from the beginning telling him her issue. Not embarrassing him on live tv. That’s like a punch in the face to him cause I’m pretty sure he gives her attention but she also has to consider that he’s a famous basketball player who’s if not always , mostly busy.

Estevan Salas 6th
5/10/2019 11:20:45 pm

The comments are acting like shes so desperate but the girl is just tired of feeling invisible. Ayesha may be tired of the way others treat her and is addressing it.

Aaliyah C 3rd pd
5/10/2019 11:26:42 pm

I disagree yeah every person should express their feelings but in this situation she should have came to her husband first.

M. Sanchez 6th pd
5/10/2019 10:50:24 pm

I don’t fully understand why she’s looking for other men to give or show her any kind of attention when she’s a married women. If they did it would be a problem of we’ll im married you shouldn’t be talking to me this and that. I understand she wants to feel a certain way but that’s what you have a HUSBAND for and oh should be able to communicate that with your partner not the whole world. Also, caring about what other people tell you has never benefited anyone in a good way so why should it really matter what everyone thinks especially if they don’t know who you truly are.

R.Hannon 6th pd
5/10/2019 11:09:58 pm

I didn't necessarily interpret that she was trying or is getting attention from other men, She wants it specially from HER HUSBAND. Best believe men are looking at her and others. She just don't know because just like the video said "your not looking"!!!!!

K.Gomez 6th
5/10/2019 10:52:33 pm

I understand her and what she is trying to say. Yes she may be married but even so having a little bit of attention is kind of a coincidence booster. Of course she won’t act on it but having a little bit of attention is nice sometimes. I really admire her courage to be open about her feelings in this topic. It’s a very common experience that not a lot of people touch on. So for her to receive such backlash for being open is kind of irritating and disappointing.

R.Hannon 6th pd
5/10/2019 11:06:16 pm

As woman, everyone should've lift her up and gave advice on how to go about during Steph away time during finals. Who wouldn't want their man right at home. For god sake she just had a baby. She needs that warmth and love right now but she's feeling lonely while he's away which is very understandable. And I'm not even married and i feel her on this one. But, it's not even the fact that their married it's just dealing with balance of kids, husband, family time and life itself.

Z Holmes Pd 3
5/10/2019 11:54:49 pm

She just wants to see if she still got it. Mom's tend to not feel " sexy " after so long so it's understandable to want some male attention.

K. Banks 6th
5/10/2019 11:59:27 pm

Expressing her feelings so publicly did take a lot of courage.

M. Cain 2nd
5/10/2019 11:01:19 pm

I can definitely understand where Ayesha is coming from, I think she just wants to feel like she still has it. But I don’t think she should have commented publicly. This was a conversation for her and her girls to have but not for the entire world to hear because if the roles were reversed and Steph said that he wanted to be noticed by more woman all hell would have broke lose. Literally. She definitely has the right to feel the way she feels BUT I don’t think everybody needed to know about this one. But through all the madness I’m sure she’s helped hundreds of other woman, mothers, and wife’s that don’t feel like they did 3-5 years ago. Nonetheless shoutout to her for not being afraid of being vulnerable.

R.Hannon 6th pd
5/10/2019 11:01:26 pm

I'm honestly tired of everyone bashing her and comparing her to other people marriage. Now if the tables were turned and she wasn't married to a famous basketball player. Everyone will feel where she is coming from. Everyone feel as if she is complaining when all she is saying a little affirmations wouldn't hurt. Of course the man is busy and has his head wrapped around finals and what's the next game plan. It just a moment were they both need to work out the kinks when the season is over I'm sure he wants to be home with his kids and wife. She just gave birth to a baby, so it's just not the right time were everything is in place but it will eventually fall in order when finals are over and they will all have attention.

Estevan Salas 6th
5/10/2019 11:11:04 pm

If she was an average human people would be like “me” or “relateable” but since she rich they wanna be mean. The internet something else.

D. Jones 3rd
5/10/2019 11:04:47 pm

I think she should have kept that to herself #1. #2 If you are a married women why in the world would you want to be noticed by other men. I think it’s wrong then you go not only in public but on a talk show. She is basically saying that she need attention because her husband isn't giving her any.... but she said it in PUBLIC not to her husband. That’s rude

Aaliyah C 3rd pd
5/10/2019 11:23:39 pm

I kinda agree with what your saying that reminds me of when my grandmother used to say "what goes on in this house stays in this house".She should have just had a private conversation with her husband and kept the world out of her business.

B. Haynes 8th
5/10/2019 11:50:12 pm

I don’t necessarily think it’s rude. People keep bringing up the fact that Ayesha is married as if she doesn’t know that, but maybe she seeks validation from outside someone who should automatically make her feel good about herself, such as her husband.

F. Aleman 8th
5/12/2019 07:29:51 pm

Why do she need to keep how she feels privately? I guess we denying people from expressing their feelings now. I think it is ridiculous that we keep bring up that she's married. Yes she's married but she's still human. She feels every emotion that you can feel. Why are we shaming her for what she said?

Jniquea jackson2
5/10/2019 11:07:54 pm

I can feel for Ayesha. Even tho you may still have the dream husband there is always something that tells you if you feeling off . I feel she is felling off and the off part is she not getting attention from men’s. I do believe that’s because other me s have to much respect for Stephen curry . It’s not that no one is attracted to her because she is beautiful but everyone know the boundaries.

Estevan Salas 6th
5/10/2019 11:09:51 pm

What Ayesha said is truly how she feels and if it hurts her feelings it should be addressed. She obviously knows she is not alone in this situation, and is trying to raise awareness of how others tend to view women. However, the response she got literally proved her point, and opened the floodgates for “cancel-culture” who is now attacking her. Ayesha needs to realize that people say many mean things online that they would never say in real life. The opinions others share should not be the opinion you value, that is your own.

K. Banks 6th
5/10/2019 11:57:31 pm

Other women could be in this same position, but won’t express it because of their fear of backlash.

M. Mason 1st
5/14/2019 03:42:14 pm

She is allowed to fed the way she does.

Aaliyah C 3rd pd
5/10/2019 11:21:11 pm

Ayesha is human just like everybody else. She should be able to express her feelings with out being judged. Even though in this situation it would have been better if she had a private conversation with her husband.

B. Haynes
5/10/2019 11:46:09 pm

There’s nothing inherently wrong about Ayesha wanting validation or attention from other men. It’s human nature for us to want to feel “wanted” and attractive by other people’s standards. There are many people who are coming at her for feeling insecure and being married while still wanting attention, but I think it’s more about her confidence. While I’m sure Steph and Ayesha have a loving marriage, sometimes one person isn’t enough for validation—especially when you are insecure. I don’t think a lot people thought deeper about the situation beyond Ayesha Curry, as there are so many women—and even men—who feel this way when it comes to validation.

B. Haynes 8th
5/10/2019 11:48:08 pm

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A. Green 3
5/11/2019 03:25:39 pm

I totally agree with this because she doesn’t get all the attention from the opposite sex like her husband does. Which can make her feel as though she isn’t as pretty and etc.But many are small minded and feel like cause you’re married you shouldn’t wanna be attractive to others but they do the exact same thing if you’re in a relationship and post a picture and don’t get that many likes or comments you’ll delete it cause you’re not getting enough self gratification from others.

Asiah.r
5/12/2019 01:36:53 pm

True tho i don't agree that should should have said it on tv and could have worded it a bit better so it wouldn't spin out of control

Z Holmes Pd 3
5/10/2019 11:50:42 pm

I feel like Ayesha feels like she's stuck behind the limelight. Her husband is getting around the clock attention from an unlimited amount of women and she's only known as " Steph's wife " so I can understand it.

Marqueshia Richardson Richardson
5/10/2019 11:55:13 pm

Women who start to feel insecure they start to change the way they dressed to boost up their confidence there's nothing wrong with that but I feel like when this becomes a thing where it's not modest anymore that's where becomes a problem when people start to talk down on them because of what they wear or how they are even though it does not determine who they are it starts to become a thing where men could see certain things and say what they feel and then they asked why do they draw this attention and I feel like you know you can have confidence without having to change your style and dressing but you can change of Stalin thinking and how you carry yourself and your own persona.

M. Mason 1st
5/14/2019 03:44:52 pm

People shouldn’t have to change their look for attention

K. Banks 6th
5/10/2019 11:55:45 pm

Reassurance is common to feel in long term relationships. Ayesha’s need to feel attractive doesn’t necessarily mean she isn’t getting attention from her husband. It could just be a boost of self-esteem. People shouldn’t shame her for expressing how she feels. Although I believe she should have kept this within her private life.

M Martinez 3rd
5/11/2019 02:43:00 pm

Reassurance is completely normal she shouldn't feel like she said something wrong. She just said it to such a wide crowd.

G Musa 6th period
5/10/2019 11:55:55 pm

If she feels she’s not getting attention from other men then she shouldn’t be married. Ayesha should know her husband has priorities on his path from the nba/ playoffs all of that, attention should be the last thing on her mind. A man shouldn’t always devote all his time into his wife especially if he’s still getting his things in order. I feel where she’s coming from and having a voice or platform boosted her voice although it wasn’t taken how she wanted it still got people talking which is what she wants.

F. Aleman 8th
5/12/2019 07:21:43 pm

Yes he has priorities, but so do she, she's an mother and is working on her career. It is human nature to be wanted and need, even for men. She's not asking for her husband to stop what hes doing .

C. Hamilton 5th
5/11/2019 09:54:08 am

When I first heard about what she said I had the same questions as everybody else of “ why she want attention from other men besides her husband?” . But I watched other videos and I kinda understand what she was saying . I think she was just wanted to know if she’s still attractive to the outside world , seeing that her husband her so many attention form other females . So yea I think she should have told this out publicly and Steph has actually spoken out about it and he says he’s proud of her for speaking out about her feeling and said that all the comments about what she said is basically BS.

A. Green 3
5/11/2019 03:21:40 pm

I totally agree with this. And I love Stephen for actually understanding how she feels and not bashing her like the rest of the world. Women have needs just like the next person.

H Aleman 8th period
5/11/2019 12:45:21 pm

I actually feel really bad for Ayesha AND Steph. Steph is a busy man, and he visibly loves his wife. He won't always have time to give her the attention she desires, but he doesn't understand how that feels because he gets that attention from other women. Despitet his, he cannot be blamed for Ayesha's insecurities. Ayesha is a beautiful woman, and it is clear that she suffers from deep insecurities. It is disgusting that she's being criticized for speaking out on these I securities. These comments are proof of everything stated in the commentary above, and I can't believe that y'all are attempting to criticize her for being HUMAN. She deserves better from society, and she isn't doing anything wrong.

M Martinez 3rd
5/11/2019 02:41:03 pm

I also inferred that he must not have enough time for her. He's the one that mostly gets all the attention obviously.

v. zavala 1st
5/12/2019 11:26:27 pm

I see what your saying, she shoudn't be getting criticize of how she's feeling. She just want attention, but because of how busy her husband is, she can't get what she wants. Like i said, previously on what i wrote, after he's done with his games, he would give her the world.

M Martinez 3rd
5/11/2019 02:40:05 pm

Ayesha just needs reassurance from her husband maybe he's often not home as much. There's nothing wrong with that to some extend. Everyone just pays attention to him and not her but what would she expect he's an NBA player. It's perfectly normal for her to want more attention but she just worded it wrong in the video. Everyone needs reassurance even if we say that we don't.

A. Green 3
5/11/2019 03:11:45 pm

I have mixed emotions about the whole topic. Cause I understand what she means by she misses attention. She’s has 3 kids which can take a major toll on a woman’s confidence and etc. But at the same time male gratification isn’t gonna help her with her insecurities. She should feel that all she needs is her husbands approval and compliments especially since he loves her and makes it very apparent by not cheating and doing the fool.

J chandler 6th
5/11/2019 10:22:27 pm

I agree. Why does other men’s opinion matter if you don’t want them?

K. Brown 8th hour
5/11/2019 08:52:33 pm

I honestly don't know how to feel about the issue. I don't know the complete inter workings of their relationship so I can't for sure say how I feel about her comments. I agree that wanting to feel needed by a partner is important, and if steph isn't giving her that he should step up his game. However, I also agree that if he is doing all he can within his allotted time she should express to him her pains but also be understanding that he is an athlete and at times that comes with complications. I can see how this would be painful though because they were together before he became a major player so switching from all these constant love and attention to scheduled "partner time" can be overwhelming and even disheartening.

S. Houston
5/12/2019 08:57:07 am

I completely agree with this! Definitely can go both ways !

M.Robinson 1st link
5/11/2019 10:04:51 pm

Ayesha curry is doing to much, curry is focus on winning the finals and that is more important right now, and I feel like she should be there by his side to support him on what he’s doing right now for him and his family. And she needs to understand that he’s in love with her and he’s going to give her all the attention in the world.

J chandler 6th
5/11/2019 10:21:10 pm

I agree. She’s being so selfish and unsupportive.

S. Sanders- 1st Period
5/11/2019 11:02:02 pm

You make a valid point. She should keep her mind, and heart and should be focused on her love with husband trusting he’s working and won’t do as other basketball players have done in the past. No getting attention from your mate would cause concerns. She knew the role and her place so, she shouldn’t let the outsiders in her marriage.

v. zavala 1st
5/12/2019 11:19:17 pm

i agree with you, she knew what she was getting into, so she shouldn't make a big deal about it.

J chandler 6th
5/11/2019 10:19:26 pm

I think that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that everyone has some beautiful in them. I think that Mrs.Cury is being so extra. Even though your husband gets attention from other women, you feel a certain way just because you don’t get as much attention from other men. Your husband loves you and that is all that should count. Not everyone is going to find you attractive and so what. Their opinion shouldn’t matter.

S. Sanders - 1st Period
5/11/2019 10:55:28 pm

I agree. Beauty is how one defines it or sees it. Beauty is within. As Curry’s wife has gotten side tracked by society’s ways she shouldn’t let this mistaken her love attention from her husband. He has to work in his career. She should focus on what they have with one another within their marriage. People will talk and make accusations whether true or not.

S. Houston
5/12/2019 08:56:28 am

Though this is true, I don’t find this realistic. Society has shown us countless times that this is all about appearance. Ex: Instagram models, YouTube gurus, etc.

S. Sanders - 1st Period
5/11/2019 11:14:49 pm

Curry’s wife used the Red Table opportunity to speak out and make a discussion as a guest at the table. We never know when something is actually done for publicity or not as this makes me think about Carli B and her husband. Some stuff she shouldn’t have not shared her feelings on as it allows the enemy or folks to be in she and Step’s marriage business regardless of what the experts may think. I feel one must have a one somebody or good friend that’s trustworthy to share certain things with therefore some stuff she should not have commented publicly. When women feel vulnerable they should confide in her mate particularly if it relates to him. Curry is 32 with three kids, a strong value system and a husband who gets more attention from other women on a daily basis than she could ever give, and we, as a society, are telling her that she has no right to want to feel attractive by no other male species if it is not her husband. She should feel attractive by other males whether they act on it or not. Everyone wants to know they still got it although their committed. A woman wants to feel good about herself and be informed about her attractiveness by her mate if no one else. This doesn’t mean he's not making her feel attractive, but him being busy hinder him acknowledging her beauty enough possibly. We might haven't heard from her husband because he may feel its’ not for everyone.

S. Houston
5/12/2019 08:54:29 am

There is nothing at all wrong with the way Mrs. Curry is feeling. I believed we’ve misinterpreted her meaning for the statement. As women we base our appearance, walk, and even talk often on what we feel will attract other people. The comfort isn’t in having other men WANT you, but knowing that as a women you have the ability to make them want. Of course she feels insecure, her husband is top in the league, she’s had multiple children, and there are women constantly throwing themselves at her spouse. There’s nothing wrong her losing confidence in herself or feeling insecure because it’s inevitable! The issues comes when we begin to see the same men slut shaming women because “they wear too little” belittle her because “she doesn’t dress to attract.” Its hypocrisy at its finest.

C.Williams 6th prd
5/12/2019 12:25:35 pm

Exactly, people are making it seem like she’s searching for attention and she’s not.

I. Chancellor 8th period
5/12/2019 11:24:10 am

To be honest, a husband and wife should never look for outside attention. With all honesty, people did come little bit too hard on Ayesha, however some of their comments were right. Looking for outside attention causes problems in relationships, because you forget about your significant other. She needs to get out of that phrase of validation and know herself that she still has it. Lastly, some attention ain’t always good attention.

C.Williams 6th prd
5/12/2019 12:24:35 pm

They were going way too hard on her but everyone does have their own opinion.

T.Falls 6th
5/12/2019 09:50:06 pm

Honestly, just because she is dating a pro basketball player automatically means she gets much attention. So how much more does she need ?

J. Maple 8th
5/12/2019 11:07:41 pm

There is nothing wrong with wanting outside attention. She’s been with her husband for a long time; sometimes the attention from him just isn’t enough, especially when her body has changed so drastically. Your mother can tell you you’re handsome but she’s your mom so she has to tell you that. You would want someone else to tell you so you’ll really believe her. It’s the same principle.

K Eagans 3rd
5/12/2019 12:14:03 pm

I believe Ayesha just wants to feel desirable to other men. She had been with her husband for a very long time and her whole adult life she was married. Stephen has women that will do anything to be with him and I think Ayesha just wants to have that same attention so that she can show him that other men want her just how other women want him.

C.Williams 6th prd
5/12/2019 12:23:31 pm

I honestly feel like everyone has taken what she said out of proportion. From a girlfriends point of view I see where she is coming from. She has had 3 kids and her body has changed, I know as a woman it can change a lot as far as confidence. I don’t believe she is looking for someone to holla at her but just knowing that she still has it is what she is saying . Not that her husband isn’t uplifting her because as her husband that is what she is supposed to do. But just having that extra boost is what she is saying.

C. San Roman 2nd
5/12/2019 04:44:06 pm

Exactly, she just wants to get attention and to be recognized by other people, after all, we all crave for that just a little bit

Asiah r
5/12/2019 01:35:16 pm

This probs gotta be the best example of money dont bring happiness,he probrably not showing her any attention and he probrably always gone and not there to give him his time. Shes been in the background of him, her entire life. Everyone loves and lust for steph curry but she feels invisible and that she be understandable. She hasn't been able to live her life as just her.she dont want an actaul man she just wants to feel sexy like all humans.

M. chavez 2nd pd
5/12/2019 04:41:22 pm

I believe that she shouldn’t be seeking any attention from other men besides her husband. If she feels insecure, that’s something to discuss privately. She shouldn’t have told the world that, she should’ve told her husband, who’s probably feeling judged by women everywhere for not making his wife feel attractive. I’m not saying her feelings are invalid.

Marqueshia Richardson Richardson
5/13/2019 07:54:11 am

I agree,I agree because even though I like that she didn't lie about how she felt then again she don't have to seek attention from anyone else but her husband and that's just what it is.

C.San Roman 2nd
5/12/2019 04:41:59 pm

There are four vital things that makes us humans: the need to love; the need to be loved; the need to be accepted; and to be respected as a human being. We all crave a little of attention, it is after all, in our own human nature to seek it. But you see, even if we get the attention of our loved ones, it sometimes just isn't enough (for some people). Some people crave for attention of stranger or the acceptance of others to give them a little boost for their egos. It is up to the individual if that's a good thing or not.

F. Aleman 8th
5/12/2019 07:14:47 pm

Ayesha Curry had every right to speak what's on her mind. From the beginning where she starts talking about struggling with juggling her work life and taking care of her kids, many women can relate this problem. Also everyone can relate to her when she speaks in wanting to be wanted. It is sad that people bash her for expressing her feelings. What's worse is that people want her to keep these comments to her self. It's human nature to want to be loved and needed so why is it when she speaks on something that is completely normal it's wrong?

L.Allen 2nd period
5/12/2019 07:46:49 pm

After watching the video and hearing her comments I can totally understand where she's coming from even though I'm not experiencing the same encounter. I believe she has the freedom to express this type of issue and I feel that her comments wasn't personal because it not like she expose him of not showing her any public love attention an affection. The point I believe she was trying to get express with the woman at the table and the audience is her insecurities that all woman have in life the only difference is that it was public which doesn't make her comments personal but more of influential to other woman. However, I don't understand why her statement was such a big deal but when Stephen sister, Sydell express her struggles with anxiety and concussions while also incorporating marriage it didn't receive any "buzz" around social media but every time a celebrity or wealthy person express something such as love, relationships,and insecurities it becomes a story line,meme, or a joke to most people which I find just unfair to Ayesha.

D.Molo8th
5/12/2019 08:27:36 pm

There's nothing wrong about Ayesha needing approval or consideration from other men. It's human instinct for us to need to feel like someones looking and alluring by other individuals' gauges. There are numerous individuals who are coming at her for inclination shaky and being hitched while as yet needing consideration, however I believe it's increasingly about her certainty. While I'm certain Steph and Ayesha have an adoring marriage, now and again one individual isn't sufficient for approval particularly when you are unreliable. I don't think a ton people pondered the circumstance past Ayesha Curry, as there are such huge numbers of ladies and even men who feel along these lines with regards to approval.

T.Falls 6th
5/12/2019 09:40:53 pm

I feel the same way I feel as if wanting people to notice you or give you attention brings comfort to some people.

C.Capel 6th
5/12/2019 11:46:20 pm

I totally agree ,we all want other people to think we are fine or cute. When you’re married or in a relationship your spouse will think you look good regardless. To have other people go crazy for you is so mesmerizing.

Dejanae Byrd link
5/13/2019 01:20:31 pm

Yea i see you missed a lot of important points in the show.

T. Young
5/12/2019 09:01:23 pm

Every women has their own insecurities, and when she's not feeling wanted it amplifies those insecurities about herself. She's in the public eye and going on a red table talk is where people talk about the most wanted to know questions or situations that went own in their life, so no she wasn't wrong for feeling that way and talking about it on the show. Also, just because he's a great and known basketball player doesn't mean that you should lack giving your women attention. Every women wants to feel needed and wonders if people are looking. Nobody should be judged or penalized for wondering married or not its human nature.

T. Young 2nd period
5/12/2019 09:02:21 pm

Every women has their own insecurities, and when she's not feeling wanted it amplifies those insecurities about herself. She's in the public eye and going on a red table talk is where people talk about the most wanted to know questions or situations that went own in their life, so no she wasn't wrong for feeling that way and talking about it on the show. Also, just because he's a great and known basketball player doesn't mean that you should lack giving your women attention. Every women wants to feel needed and wonders if people are looking. Nobody should be judged or penalized for wondering married or not its human nature!

Z. Crawford 6th pd
5/12/2019 09:10:19 pm

I really don't know how to feel about this topic because I wouldn't care about no attention from no man except my husband. Maybe she just still haven't adjusted to the amount of attention Steph gets because of her career and that's really her problem. It's not that man don't want her it's just that he's one of the most known nba players so of course he's going to have groupies every where he go like she even said in the video. I don't really understand where she coming from because long as Im getting the love and attention that I need from my husband then I'll be good. I think the problem is she really just jealous.. that's the problem she jealous he get more attention than her. Maybe she should've been a actor and he the cook or some then 🤷‍♀️ idk.

T.falls 6th
5/12/2019 10:13:14 pm

“ It is exhausting trying to be the right weight, height, class, color, natural, synthetic, made up, dressed up..you name it.“ when I read this statement it really said something to me when I was younger I wanted to be like everyone else’s but I never wanted attention from everyone. I feel like Curry’s wife is over exaggerating if you go to her Instagram right now it’s plenty of men under her photos boosting her. Exactly what type of attention is she longing for she has a whole successful husband that wouldn’t mind doing anything she ask. You can’t have a husband and attention from men at the same time simply because that’s just not how things work. Of course every woman wants to feel loved and wanted but we spend or life searching for people who can complete that task and she has that person so she needs to chill and not make comments like that. Lastly that kinda disrespectful to her husband and it makes it seem like he is not doing his job.

J. Maple 8th
5/12/2019 11:00:51 pm

People boosting her under a photo is not the same thing as her husband being fawned over by dozens of tangible women at a basketball game. She wants to know she’s good enough to be fawned over too. No one wants to feel like they’re standing in their significant other’s shadow.

C.Capel 6th
5/12/2019 11:44:30 pm

It’s also disrespectful for people to think Steph is fine and call them their husband . I understand where Ayesha is coming from. Even though I’m married I would still want people to think I’m fine as hell.

Timothy Hornbuckle 5 period
5/13/2019 07:48:55 am

People boosting her under a photo is not the same thing as her husband being fawned over by dozens of tangible women at a basketball game. She wants to know she’s good enough to be fawned over too. No one wants to feel like they’re standing in their significant other’s shadow.

J. Maple 8th
5/12/2019 10:55:42 pm

I believe that Ayesha Curry said what a lot of women won’t say. A lot of people think she’s wrong because she should only care about what her husband thinks of her, but that’s the first step in losing her identity. She should be able to want to set her sexuality and individuality aside from her husband, and be able to know that that isn’t the only man that finds her beautiful. The same reason that people are in relationships and still post nice and flattering pictures of themselves for the world to see and comment on is the same reason Curry feels the way she does. I believe she was right in saying her truth, and it opened an important societal conversation about individuality in relationships.

K. Shavers 1st
5/15/2019 07:47:30 am

Righhttt she just want to feel beautiful and get the same attention as her husband gets.

S.Johnson 8th
5/15/2019 01:16:05 pm

Attention should be damn near equal. Women should get the same respect and attention as men.

v. zavala 1st
5/12/2019 11:15:22 pm

To be honest, Ayesha should know what she was getting herself into in the first place. Yeah, i understand she's not getting the attention she wants, but she should know deep down, that her husband loves her truly and would give her the world. It just takes time, that's all. I know, as soon as the game is over, he's going to give her and the kids all the attention in the world. She just needs to stay calm, and wait till he's done, then she'll get what she wants. Like i said, it takes time.

A crow 5th period
5/12/2019 11:35:45 pm

I feel like she shouldn't worry about getting attention from another man when she is married with kids.

Timothy Hornbuckle 5 period
5/13/2019 07:48:22 am

To be honest, Ayesha should know what she was getting herself into in the first place. Yeah, i understand she's not getting the attention she wants, but she should know deep down, that her husband loves her truly and would give her the world. It just takes time, that's all. I know, as soon as the game is over, he's going to give her and the kids all the attention in the world. She just needs to stay calm, and wait till he's done, then she'll get what she wants. Like i said, it takes time.

R. Mbelwa 6th
5/16/2019 01:15:59 pm

She just has to wait and let it pass. The finals has her husband traveling left and right, practicing everyday so she can have a fulfilling lifestyle. Yet she wants more more and more. Greedy people are bad.

Marqueshia Richardson Richardson
5/13/2019 07:52:21 am

Exactly that is what I was saying like it should not matter why would she even need other men's attwntion?? Could it be that she is looking for attention to feel good or look better?? Cause if that is the case then she is going to be feeling "bad" or "ugly" because you have to know that you are beautiful no matter who knows you exist or no matter how much attention you get because of how you look attention from men does not make you beautiful YOU make you beautiful.

M. Jimerson 2nd
5/13/2019 08:47:41 am

Some women still want to be told that they're attractive even when they're married and have children like they do Chrissy Tiegen or Beyoncé.

C.Capel 6th
5/12/2019 11:43:09 pm

As a woman I get where Ayesha is coming from . It was misinterpreted in a different way by the internet . Ayesha is basically saying it’s okay to be married and have someone think you’re attractive and gorgeous ,but to have other people/men be crazy over you is very pleasant . I think some things should be kept to yourself though because people love twisting things. It’s just like Beyoncé is married and people still think she is fine and beautiful. Ayesha basically wants to have that type of attention . Sometimes hearing things from other people can send you over the moon.

I. Florence 8th
5/12/2019 11:50:11 pm

There is nothing wrong with Ayesha wanting male attention. We as teenagers are swept off of our feet with this false idea of two perfect people making a perfect relationship. There is no such thing as perfect people and there is no such thing as a prefect relationship. At the end of the day we are humans. We have needs and wants that will not always be filled in a relationship. And that is the underlying message of this situation. It is just that the public did not understand the message because of the way Ayesha expressed her concerned.

Q. Chancellor (5th period)
5/15/2019 10:35:13 am

I agree that people did not understand the message that Ayesha was trying to get across. I do not feel as though it was a jab at her relationship, but the realness of one’s personal feelings being expressed.

S.Johnson 8th
5/15/2019 01:07:22 pm

Exactly. All she wanted to do was express her concerns and state her struggles. However people are taking it into the negative light and bashing her for her opinion.

Timothy Hornbuckle 5 period
5/13/2019 07:47:14 am

There is nothing wrong with Ayesha wanting male attention. We as teenagers are swept off of our feet with this false idea of two perfect people making a perfect relationship. There is no such thing as perfect people and there is no such thing as a prefect relationship. At the end of the day we are humans. We have needs and wants that will not always be filled in a relationship. And that is the underlying message of this situation. It is just that the public did not understand the message because of the way Ayesha expressed her concerned.

Marqueshia Richardson Richardson
5/13/2019 07:48:32 am

I think it shouldn't matter how other men feel about you if your husband thinks you are beautiful even if he didn't you have to know who you are and know you are beautiful no matter how much attention other men give you.

M. Jimerson 2nd
5/13/2019 08:44:53 am

Even if they're married to the love of their life, they still might not feel attractive and they feign for that love and acceptance from their significant other.

Q. Chancellor (5th period)
5/15/2019 10:31:43 am

I disagree with this statement because that is very unrealistic and not logical. When someone is in a marriage or relationship , their attraction to other people is not talking away. We are human and will always be attracted to what we like because it is our human nature. When you are married , that attraction is controlled and not acted on .

J.morgan 1st period
5/13/2019 08:03:56 am


Both Ayesha and Stephen been together since they was fifteen years old so it was basically love at first site. And it is kinda not fair to judge her and say she knew what she was getting into because she didn't and when you are in a real relationship where the presence of love is strong you are willing to make sacrifices and despise Stephen mom already going through she was willing an smart enough to let her experience the process herself without giving her a blueprint of the same lifestyle

R. Mbelwa 6th
5/16/2019 01:13:32 pm

Don’t let that change anything what she did was still wrong. All this is doing is bringing more attention to her and will cause guys to not lean her way. But even if they do maybe one will make her change her ways.

Lloyd Trimble
5/13/2019 08:39:55 am

I believe that Ayesha is thinking too deep into this situation. It’s out of respect for her husband that nobody tries to flirt with her and she should know that. I understand her being insecure, but that’s something you talk to your husband about not the whole world

M. Jimerson 2nd
5/13/2019 08:43:27 am

After watching the truthful and heartfelt video, I have learned that even women like Ayesha Curry have insecurities like the every day woman. Men put us on a pedestal and judge us, whether it be verbal or off of s comment. Even women break down other women because they think it's attractive and 'sexy' when in reality, that's just deteriorating their conscious slowly and breaking down their self esteem.

M.Horton 5th
5/13/2019 11:18:46 am

Ms. Curry is just simply stating she wants to feel needed she’s not saying that her husband doesn’t make her feel that way. She’ simply speaking her mind and displaying how she feels.

Dejanae link
5/13/2019 01:19:25 pm

I completely understand where Steph is coming from, and believe it or not, most females are insecure and feel the same way as Steph. Most females don't speak on their insecurities because it's a sign of weakness but it is very common. Society is bashing Steph and I think that is every unnecessary. I see some people are saying things like "she has a husband she shouldn't be feeling that way.." but we desire attention, it's completely natural.

K. Allen 8th pd
5/14/2019 02:11:26 pm

Ayesha isn’t saying that her husband doesn’t tell her she is beautiful but that she doesn’t attract other males. People are bashing her and making memes but in reality there is plenty of women in this world that feels the exact same way. Even her husband backs her up on this, wanting additional male attention isn’t her saying that she wants to cheat on her husband but she wants to feel beautiful instead and society bashing her and making her feel like less of a women is not the solution to her problem.

K. Shavers 1st
5/15/2019 07:42:59 am

I do not think there is nothing wrong with wanting other male attention .Everyone feelings and emotions are not the same so even though she said how she felt, its shouldn't be a big deal. Clearly she wanted it to be known that she wasn't getting a lot of attention and that her husband was. Even her husband backs her up on this, wanting additional male attention isn’t her saying that she wants to cheat on her husband but she wants to feel beautiful instead and society bashing her and making her feel like less of a women is not the solution to her problem.

Q. Chancellor (5th period)
5/15/2019 10:28:23 am

The way Ayesha feels is valid and to understand what she is saying one has to have reached a certain level of maturity. When your husband is receiving lots of feedback from various woman , it is human nature to feel lonely or unwanted. She was not saying she wanted another man , but was being honest about her desire to fulfill the attention aspect of her relationship.

S.Johnson 8th
5/15/2019 01:05:03 pm

At first when I heard about this issue i was confused as to why she would want attention from others. She has a loving husband that any woman would die to have so how could she be insecure. Then i really thought about it and i get what she means. Steph goes out and gets attention from so many women no matter where he is. Ayesha , on the other hand, is always noticed as Steph Curry wife and not Ayesha Curry. She wants to be her own person and grab others attention like "hey I walked in the door all attention on me."

J James 6th Period
5/16/2019 09:57:15 am

I totally agree, sometimes she just wants to feel like all eyes are on her.

Augustine
5/16/2019 12:01:18 pm

I agree with you, but why dies se have to feel like the eyes are on her when she should already know it. She is beautiful, and im sure she knows it, but why does she need the assurance from a man.

T.Tate 8th
5/15/2019 01:17:15 pm

I give Ayesha her props for speaking her mind. I don’t feel like she should get bashed for letting the world know her feelings. Everyone think celebrities doesn’t suppose to speak their mind and I don’t understand why. It’s not like she said anything bad. She just said what she realized and she’s not wrong for sharing it. I’m pretty sure it’s more women in this world that feel the same way.Ayesha was just bold enough to say it and I give her respect for it.

Ricardo Montoya
5/16/2019 09:56:39 am

I agree with you just because she has fame and fortune that makes her a target but if she was in the middlee class or lower class no one would even care what she has to say but its good that theres woman that have the guts to say or do whatever they feel like we need more woman like that

T. Jones 2nd
5/16/2019 09:39:28 am

I think people are quick to respond without listening. First off, celebrities speak out about a lot of things and now that it is something personal it’s a problem? Second, you have to put yourself in her situation to really understand how she feels. No one wants to feel like only one person thinks they are beautiful! Yes she is married & im sure Curry understands where she is coming from! Just like no man wants to be with a woman that ONLY he think is beautiful. & this does not mean curry doesn’t make her feel like she is beautiful!

J James 6th Period
5/16/2019 09:56:21 am

I agree with you. People are just looking at it from the outside looking , not from her point of view.

Augustine P 2nd
5/16/2019 11:59:17 am

I agree with you, they dont come and speak with each other for everyone elses input on the situation. Im sure that Stephen and Ayesha both have had the conversation in the walls of their own home and are on the same page with it.

J James 6th Period
5/16/2019 09:55:08 am

Curry was just using her platform. She most likely felt that there were other women in the world, in her position, who felt the same way. I don’t agree with her statement but I know she wanted to be voice for people she didn’t know. I feel when you’re married, you should only look for validation from your husband. Especially if he’s providing and supporting everything you do.

L. Richardson 7th
5/16/2019 04:59:27 pm

I agree, there are other people in the world that feel the same way. Although the bad ones are over yelling the good ones, they're out there.

Ricardo Montoya
5/16/2019 09:55:15 am

As a human I feel like she has her every right to feel that way as it might seem as a bad thing to say because shes married its her feelings she probably feels that way because she sees all the millions of woman that talk about her husband or say things about her husband so she has every right to feel that way she probably just wants to feel beautiful for example when someone tells someone shes BEAUTIFUL I bet they suddenly just get that urge to smile because it's how someone looks at you not how you look at yourself and if your self esteem is low getting that reminder that you probably dont get enough of will make a person upset so she has every right to speak or say how she feels no matter whos shes marrried too no matter how old she is a woman and can say whatever she feels like saying its no ones buisness but hers.

Augustine P 2nd
5/16/2019 11:55:24 am

From watching this video, i have a better understand of what a successful marriage is consisted of. Alot of people dont understand that being with a famous person is not all easy all the time. I feel bad for Ayesha because she hasnt come to the understanding with herself that because men know who her husband is, and that that cant possibly give her more than he could then they wont even try to get the time of the day. That doesnt mean that men doesnt want her, its just a respect thing.

Wisdom S 5th
5/16/2019 12:50:42 pm

I think it is good she spoke out about her insecurities on feeling as though she does not get enough attention and many would be able to relate to that. It’s human nature to want attention or the thought of having attention however that does not mean she would act on it if she received it and i believe that’s were most of the hate comes from. No marriage is perfect and i’m sure there is much love between them and for people saying she should’ve married someone else a partnership is built off of much more than just attention.

R. Mbelwa 6th
5/16/2019 01:11:01 pm

What was she thinking I don’t know but feeling hurt because dudes don’t want you and respect her marriage enough to not “catcall” her or hit her dms up is crazy. Of course girls will go after her husband because he’s a great basketball player but that’s shouldn’t hurt your pride as a woman cause guys don’t do the same. There was a quote I heard before on a group chat for enlightening men to focus on themselves. It went as followed “ You give a girl the world and she’ll ask for the stars.” I see that’s what I feel like she’s doing.

M Taylor 1st period
5/16/2019 02:09:34 pm

I don’t think a married woman should seek attention from anyone other than her husband.. especially from men.. social media is toxic to the brain also relationships if there’s a problem with your spouse and you speak to them not the whole world dummy

L. Richardson 7th
5/16/2019 04:54:37 pm

She wasn't even saying that, in fact she specifically said that is not what she was trying to obtain. I feel lik it really just slipped out I the spur of the moment. You have to think about it when will she ever be able to have that conversation with those strong minded women again.

Ant Breedlove 3rd
5/16/2019 10:16:12 pm

That’s not really what she was saying honestly

L. Richardson 7th
5/16/2019 04:43:38 pm

I whole heartly understand what she's saying. It's not the idea of her not knowing her beauty, because she knows she is a beautiful women. Its the situation of her going from getting checked out and hollered at all the time to not even a wave or a look now. Those are like little reassurances to confirm what she already knows to be true . Although I don't agree with the way she went about expressing those feelings. Of course your having girl talk but you know that conversation is bring aired for the world to see. She should have first went to her man to have that talk and maybe they could've resolved it before hand.

Ant Breedlove 3rd
5/16/2019 10:15:38 pm

She wants attention on top of having an nba star...she wants to feel superior to the males, that she is still attractive

C. Swann 1st
5/16/2019 10:21:55 pm

I find no problem in her expression. People aren’t robots and they should be allowed to live outside of plastic. She isn’t like everybody else and that’s why she doesn’t receive the same attention. Why can’t good women receive attention like Instagram prostitutes? I ask the same thing. It makes you question your worth and if you’re wrong for being who you are. And if you’ve never questioned yours then you might just be another everybody.


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