Unfaithful Faith

12/18/2023

Respond to the following: You go out with your girlfriend/boyfriend for dinner at a new restaurant in a part of town you rarely visit. You are shocked to see your best friend’s girlfriend/boyfriend having dinner with a very attractive person that is not your best friend. From the way they are behaving, it is obvious they are more than friends: kissing, hugging, flirting. The couple finish their meal and leave without seeing you. They behave very affectionately on the way out the door. What should you do?

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N rainey 1a

12/18/2023 08:36:25 am

in this situation i feel you should capture some evidence a picture or something and i feel you should go to your best friend in a respectful manner and let your best friend know because they deserve to

Williams J 1A

12/18/2023 08:38:43 am

I agree with that because it will help the situation more so they can tell you’re telling the truth

Z Diaz 1A

12/18/2023 08:42:35 am

I agree with this, they would probaly come more to terms with it if they see it with their own two eyes.

L Speed 1A

12/18/2023 08:48:26 am

I agree it dose help the situation

Martinez, P 3A

12/18/2023 02:42:58 pm

Why even approach? because if that's their boyfriend and you like them then something is obivously wrong with you. That'l cause more drama for you because they'll think or your trying steal my boyfriend and/or girlfriend.

D Manuel 1a

12/18/2023 08:39:52 am

I agree, even without the evidence if you are truly best friends he or she should believe what you say.

J Robinson 1a

12/20/2023 08:47:14 am

I agree your best friend should always take your advice and believe what you say over anybody.

zyheem jackson

12/20/2023 01:36:58 pm

i agree to without the advice it

Starr Kandice 1a

12/18/2023 08:41:48 am

I agree with you because evidenjce can play a huge part in a situation like this.

makayla cook 1a

12/18/2023 08:41:54 am

i agree because doing it respectfuly is the best way to do it to they are more calm about it

J Robinson 1a

12/20/2023 08:48:56 am

I agree and degree at the same time because some time their reaction ain't as calm as you expect it to be .

Haines B. 4A

12/20/2023 02:36:37 pm

i agree with you i would tell the friend

M johnson 1a

12/18/2023 08:42:24 am

I agree because once you have hard evidence there ain’t no getting out of that.

Z Diaz 1A

12/20/2023 08:44:52 am

i agree because he wouldnt be able to lie and make me look bad. She wouldnt really have any room to blame me.

Shankle, A 1A

12/18/2023 08:42:48 am

Yes i agreed i would take some picture or video to show proof of what i saw from my eyes and showing the evidence. And manly tell them form there respectful way to show her/him about it and just letting them know about it.

N parker 7B

12/19/2023 12:38:16 pm

i agree with this comment

Albiar X

12/18/2023 08:46:33 am

i agree taking a picture would only let them know that your telling the truth

Lee J A1

12/20/2023 09:01:39 am

I agree because it can be really be frustrating with even with evidence,my best friend might not believe,he would come up with assumptions

smith A 1A

12/18/2023 08:50:09 am

i agree with this some people would argue that there's no evidence if you didn't record so that's why you gather evidence

dmason 1A

12/20/2023 08:46:55 am

i agree because evidence is better to have proof just in case they don't believe

J Robinson 1a

12/20/2023 08:49:58 am

I degree because even with evidence their still not gone believe you half of the times.

C.Cofield 3A

12/18/2023 12:21:25 pm

I would have to agree with you on that one because I wouldn't want my friends to see my partner being touchy touchy with someone other than me and not say anything about the situation.

dmason 1A

12/20/2023 08:53:14 am

i agree because it better to confront then let them know that its wrong

Haines B. 4A

12/20/2023 02:37:53 pm

i would tell them imidetly and help confront them for my friend

zyheem jackson

12/18/2023 12:27:36 pm

a good idea is to approach the situation and let them and just pull the young dude to the side and let him know if he wants to fight i would say fight because u not fighting over no girl u just fighting for respect and. And you better not lose lol

D. Hurth 3A

12/18/2023 12:29:19 pm

I agree , I would try to capture some pictures so i can have some form of evidence when I go to inform my best friend.

cook T, 1A

12/18/2023 02:36:13 pm

I 100% agree I mostly agree with the capture evidence part because sometimes when you tell someone something like that they won't believe you unless they see it for themselves

K Jacinto 6B

12/18/2023 02:41:04 pm

I agree there is like no way to say that picture evidence is false. Since they may not believe your word, this is a good way.

Hernandez A. 4A

12/18/2023 02:45:16 pm

This student can be right about that without proof your best friend will say that you're lying.

D Davis 6B

12/19/2023 10:45:11 am

Yeah, people find it hard to believe that their significant other is cheating on them so having proof is good.

Z.woods 6b

12/19/2023 10:45:16 am

Yes, I agree with taking a picture first. Their partner might try to lie and say they didn't do anything.

M Fairley 6B

12/19/2023 11:03:30 am

I agree. Like I would've done all that in a heartbeat because my bestie deserves to and should know. And I'd let him figure out how he'd wanna handle it.

Nicholas Parker 7B

12/19/2023 12:36:22 pm

I agree with this comment completely

Daniel g 8b

12/19/2023 02:57:25 pm

I agree because although it is not necessarily any of your business, your friend should know and not be left in the dark in a situation like this.

L Speed 1A

12/20/2023 08:50:29 am

I agree it dose help the situation to tell your best friend out of the respect I got for him

Lee J A1

12/20/2023 08:56:36 am

I see where you're coming from, and it's a valid point. Gathering evidence could help clarify the situation.

Hermione Fears

12/20/2023 09:05:42 am

i agree i would definitely get some evidence and then tell/show my bestfriend after

Williams J 1A

12/18/2023 08:37:37 am

I think they should go ahead and tell their best-friend because as a best-friend you supposed to have they back and make sure no one is tryna hurt them physically and mentally.

C Da Silva 1A

12/18/2023 08:40:10 am

I agree because by not telling them you are also lying to them, and some people might feel like they can't trust you after withholding information from them.

L Speed 1A

12/18/2023 08:49:31 am

I agree I wouldn't let that happen

A. Green 8b

12/19/2023 02:45:59 pm

I said in my post that I would not want to be guilty by association, so I agree with this completely. Why would you want to lie to your best friend? Even if it is just "withholding information" I don't understand why you would keep something that is going to hurt them inevitably.

N rainey 1a

12/18/2023 08:40:57 am

i agree because in that situation your best friend is maybe oblivious

T Gray 1A

12/18/2023 08:42:16 am

I agree because what type of best friend are you to not say something.

Johnson M 2 1A

12/18/2023 08:42:16 am

It is the best thing to do when encountering this. Make sure that your friends know about what is happening. It would be disappointing to see them continue their relationship knowing that the other is unfaithful and going behind their back instead of breaking it off.

Albiar X 1 A

12/18/2023 08:47:27 am

i agree once someone turns there back on you you shouldnt go back to them

Spencer. S. 1A

12/20/2023 08:56:47 am

I agree, I wouldn’t want my friend out here looking crazy for someone who is out here being disloyal to them

M johnson

12/18/2023 08:43:04 am

i agree because you being the bestfriend you can’t leave them in the dark about stuff like that.

makayla cook 1a

12/18/2023 08:43:07 am

i agree because if someone hurts my friend i feel that it is my duty to kick butt for them and if they need someone to do something for them i will

C.scott 1a

12/18/2023 08:44:16 am

true because nobody deserves to get their feelings and heart crushed especially if they are going hard behind them

Shankle, A 1A

12/18/2023 08:44:41 am

Yes i agreed for what you are saying about that if you do tell your best friend you have there back from what you saw because you don´t want to see your best friend hurt.

smith A 1A

12/18/2023 08:48:22 am

i agree at the end of the day no one deserves to be disrespected even especially if its done so careless like

J. Kinard (4A)

12/18/2023 02:32:28 pm

Agreed. Friends back each other up, and you're able to support them in these situations.

B Jasso 6B

12/19/2023 10:45:20 am

I agree with you, your best friend has to know because ya'll probably tell each other everything that happens in both ya'll's lives, so in a way the friend would have a right to know that their boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on them, but you need proof, so secretly take pictures or record a video.

D Davis 6B

12/19/2023 10:46:08 am

I agree, being there for them is all you can do at that point.

M Fairley 6B

12/19/2023 11:06:49 am

100% That's like your one job as a best friend, and I would fulfill that with maximum efficiency. I would just make sure he's ok and I would just support him.

B Jasso 6B

12/21/2023 10:15:36 am

I agree with you because getting played just isn't right, I feel like the friend has a right to know that he's being cheated on, so try and get hard evidence and if he or she still doesn't believe you, then have your boyfriend/girlfriend back your statement up.

A. Green 8b

12/19/2023 02:44:28 pm

Yes exactly, you have to have your best friends back, no matter what. There should be no reason that you are keeping something this big from them. Eventually something like this will hurt them emotionally, so it's better to just rip the band aid off then to let it simmer.

E Martinez 1A

12/20/2023 08:45:50 am

I agree because you should let your friend know if there partner is cheating on them so they know whats going on and don't get hurt

L Speed 1A

12/20/2023 08:53:32 am

I agree I wouldn't let my best friend get his feelings hurt by any girl

C Valdez 1A

12/20/2023 08:54:34 am

I agree with this I think since it's your best friend it would be okay to let your friend know what's happening. I think that if you tell them what's going on they could trust you more. I also think making sure they don't waste time or money on the friend is important because time is valuable so it's better to tell them as soon as you can.

Hermione Fears

12/20/2023 09:08:33 am

i agree with this because if its your true bestfriend u would do anything to protect her including her feelings and image as person

C Da Silva 1A

12/18/2023 08:37:55 am

What I would do is tell the person that they are probably getting cheated on. it's best to do this so they don't continue to be in a relationship where they are being lied to.

Williams J

12/18/2023 08:39:31 am

I agree because you can’t just let it happen and they don’t know it’s happening.

Starr Kandice 1a

12/18/2023 08:43:12 am

I agree but you have to be more certain then probably cause that friend may not believe you if your not certain so maybe capture evidence too.

zyan c

12/18/2023 12:23:21 pm

It would not even be probably if you spot them doing those activities the n it is cheating, and you have to tell them and leave nothing out.

Daniel g 8b

12/19/2023 02:58:59 pm

I agree however you would have to say it in a pretty respectful and thought out way/ include evidence to support your claim.

Johnson M 2 1A

12/18/2023 08:37:55 am

In this situation you should either confront them or tell your friend. It's weird that they are acting like that, and would be even weirder to keep it secret. It makes you a better person and keeps your friend out of an unloving relationship.

D Manuel 1a

12/18/2023 08:40:47 am

Heavily agreed, inform your friends and whatever happens next doesn't matter because you have done your part.

T Gray 1A

12/18/2023 08:43:24 am

I agree because if it would me I would tell my best friend.

L Vargas 1A

12/18/2023 08:44:20 am

I can agree with your comment because if there's any will of you just hold back and let them know and you just sit their and not do anything you just making things worst and having no trust with your homeboy.

Starr Kandice 1a

12/18/2023 08:44:43 am

I agree and I think you should do both, confront them and tell the friend because the person that is going on this date with the booyfriend/girlfriend probably doesn't even know about the situation

z swain

12/18/2023 12:26:43 pm

I agree you should do both just to let the other person know u standing by your friend

B Penson

12/19/2023 11:45:19 am

I would definitely tell my friend immediately.

E Martinez 1A

12/20/2023 08:51:51 am

I agree because you shouldn't keep a secret from your friend that would hurt them

Spencer.S. 1A

12/20/2023 08:59:16 am

I disagree with the part where you said confront them…I feel like that’s not your place but I agree with everything else you said.

L Vargas 1A

12/18/2023 08:38:06 am

If I were in this situation I would have to make a tough phone call to my best friend that his girlfriend who has been faithful to has broken something that he thought it was real

Zyan

12/18/2023 12:21:05 pm

I agree that would be the only choice let them know soon as you find out so they can go ahead and get over it.

z swain 3a

12/18/2023 12:25:21 pm

facts that phone game be crazy I'll be mad with my slime

M johnson 1a

12/18/2023 08:38:09 am

Me personally i’m telling my homeboy. If i don’t tell him that would make me a L mans just letting him get played.

L Vargas 1A

12/18/2023 08:41:15 am

I can agree with your comment because although there might be a force push me to tell my homeboy nevertheless i have to push thru and be honest about this situation he is about to be in

C Da Silva 1A

12/18/2023 08:41:22 am

I agree, there is no point in keeping information from them. They're gonna find out eventually so it's best to just tell them when you saw it happen.

Amalio Garcia 1A

12/18/2023 08:47:16 am

Ima have to agree, not telling your homeboy about a serious situation like this you don't make you better than them.

Glover d

12/18/2023 08:56:28 am

i agree cuz like if you dont nun that make you a fake friend and then your friend would prolly get mad at you or not but still i say something about it and get that evidence

Q Sanders 3a

12/18/2023 12:25:01 pm

yeah i agree i would rather tell him now then later finding out i already knew

D Cruz 3A

12/18/2023 12:25:35 pm

That does make you a L man because whatever happens in the dark comes to the light so you would just get caught up anyways and then you'd be crazy to let your friend continue on in a relationship with someone who you physically saw cheating.

A Bradley 4A

12/18/2023 02:50:28 pm

I agree because you should always tell somebody or they will think you are hiding from them. That's why communication is important.

A Bradley 6B

12/19/2023 10:57:12 am

I agree because once you know whats happening and you choose not to tell him, you're just letting him suffer.

makayla cook 1a

12/18/2023 08:38:28 am

i would tell my friend what i saw and have my boyfriend back me up since he was there. and they dont belive me i would wait for it to happen again so i can record it because no person deserves a cheater.

N rainey 1a

12/18/2023 08:42:59 am

i agree i would have some sort of evidence rather it be the person that was with me that night or a picture

D Lopez 3a

12/18/2023 12:21:42 pm

i agree because you need to have evidence just in case

Sergio Morales link

12/18/2023 12:28:37 pm

Sergio Morales-3A-
You shouldn't wait for it to happen again, as it's very likely that the best friend's lover noticed you while you were in the restaurant. So, you should try to capture footage at that moment immediately.

J. Kinard (4A)

12/18/2023 02:34:20 pm

Agreed. It's saddening that people don't want to accept the worst-case scenario, so they will try to rationalize, if not flat-out deny, the claims, but you need to keep pushing until it's proven.

Hernandez A. 4A

12/18/2023 02:56:29 pm

This reply is correct about the situation just in case my evidence gets deleted by accident my girlfriend will back me up.

D Manuel 1a

12/18/2023 08:38:34 am

In this situation you should obviously inform your best friend of what you saw and let them decide what happens next. Having a best friend means your loyalty is set apart from others therefore it is most important that you do what is right at all times, especially in a situation like this.

Johnson M 2 1A

12/18/2023 08:45:03 am

It's best to try and lead your friend into making the best decision. If they choose to stay that is on them for staying. You can't really force them to decide on something.

C.scott 1a

12/18/2023 08:46:35 am

heavy on them let them decide what they want to do. because at the end of the day a person gon stay and be with who they want to. so its best you just give your evidence and let them handle that, don't be the type all in they ear telling them this and that about what they should do

e.maso3a

12/18/2023 12:24:52 pm

I agree. Doing what's right is the lesson from our perspective, we could give advice and help out our friends but we should never keep quiet about someone that's in their personal life going behind their back.

cook T, 4A

12/18/2023 02:38:25 pm

I agree 100% on the being loyalty part because if you don't tell them your just as bad as the person who is cheating on them

dmason 1A

12/18/2023 08:38:37 am

i'll say that i will continue to watch from a distance in confront them to see whats going on in not to cause a seen in see what they have to say about it

Camarillo M 3A

12/18/2023 12:28:21 pm

Ooo that's a good one. it's always good to protect your best friend from an unhealthy relationship, and also keeping a long distance to keep an eye on them to see what else they'll do.

E Martinez 1A

12/18/2023 08:39:39 am

if I went out and seen my best friends girlfriend out with another guy I would call my friend and tell him I seen his girl with someone else and show him them sitting together

D Lopez 3a

12/18/2023 12:21:09 pm

I agree because you have to look out for your best friend.

Shankle, A 1A

12/18/2023 08:39:44 am

I would tell my best friend about it and see if she knows, what is going on with two of them not going out together like they are supposed to and being around him more. And why is your boyfriend with another girl?

D.Mims 1a

12/18/2023 08:49:39 am

yea i thought the same thing

D.Mims 1a

12/20/2023 08:50:47 am

yea i thought the same thing, i would tell my best friend about and see if she knows.

Z Diaz 1A

12/18/2023 08:39:59 am

If that was my best friend significant other i would tell them they are getting cheated on. If there a good best friend and is not delulu they would beleive me. Why would i sit there and keep it a secret from them if i would want her to tell me if it was happening to me.

D. Hurth 3A

12/18/2023 12:26:40 pm

I wouldnt tell them that they're getting cheated on from the jump , because what if im wrong.

K Jacinto 4A

12/18/2023 02:47:46 pm

I agree, being a real friend means keeping it 100, and also believing what your friend telling you.

Starr Kandice 1a

12/18/2023 08:40:45 am

I beileve that she shouldtell her friend what she saw going on. The reason I saw that is because if I had that going on behind my back and my friend saw that I would trust them to come and tell me. The truth hurts but I rather someone I know to tell me the truth before someone I don't know to comw up to me and ask me all sorts of questions about whats happening.

e.maso3a

12/18/2023 12:22:40 pm

i agree i would notify my friend as well if i witnessed the same scene. Its simply not right to ignore seeing your friends partner being unfaithful.

M Contreras 6B

12/19/2023 11:01:15 am

It's way better to hear about something from a person you trust rather than a stranger who you don't know if you can trust. You would rather hear something like this from a person you know. I say this because when you have strangers coming up to you asking about the situation it will probably feel worse.

T Gray 1A

12/18/2023 08:41:25 am

I feel like you should just take a picture and send it to your best friend to see if its right.

D.Mims 1a

12/18/2023 08:44:52 am

i would also take a pic and send it to my friend

A Bradley 4A

12/18/2023 02:40:49 pm

I agree because you have to show them proof so they will believe you.

D.Mims 1A

12/18/2023 08:41:33 am

i would invite somebody so im not sitting there being awkward.

D.Mims 1A

12/18/2023 08:43:14 am

and call my friend and show her

C.Scott 1A

12/18/2023 08:43:05 am

I wouldn't do anything at the moment to cause a scene but I would defiently be on detective mode and take pictures, some videos and everything to be able to show some type of evidence for my best friend.while i'm doing that ill be on face time with her as well so she can see for herself then send the evidence so she can confront him with it

Brooks Travis

12/18/2023 12:24:10 pm

Facts, get bro on the phone so quick

Smith N 3a

12/18/2023 12:32:41 pm

i agree with not acting stupid and not cause a scene right there in that moment and i also agree you needing to gather evidence

A Giles 6B

12/19/2023 11:01:39 am

Literally I would tell my best friend right away to let her know not to be swayed anymore. I wouldnt contfront because of the girl that is having the date with him it isn't her fault it is the guys.

Sanchez 6B

12/19/2023 11:26:04 am

I agree i wouldve done the same thing and let her confront him.

Amalio Garcia 1A

12/20/2023 08:50:20 am

This is smart ima have to agree because doing calm and sneaky is all you gotta do, not the big ol yelling and punching.

Amalio Garcia 1A

12/18/2023 08:44:22 am

What I would do in this situation is I would gather evidence of them being flirty/close, and tell my friend in person because he might react differently and might wanna start a fight for someone that isn't worth it getting hurt for or a ticket for violence. (they probably wouldn't care but still)

A. Sanchez 8b

12/19/2023 02:54:33 pm

I agree with that its better to have evidence of what the person is doing and then tell the friend about it like you said.

Albiar X 1A

12/18/2023 08:44:42 am

the first thing id do is call my friend and tell him whats going on. Thats what a true best should. and would do

smith A 1A

12/18/2023 08:46:37 am

if i was to go out and see my friends boyfriend or girlfriend being too close to someone first thing i'm going to do is take out my phone and video it if you have no evidence how is someone going to believe you on something that could possibly hurt them then once i get proof i will show them some people would argue that's not your business but no one deserves to be lied to and at the end of the day you can show the friend clear evidence its up to them of what they're going to do next

Glover D 1A

12/18/2023 08:51:58 am

I would tell my friend and get a bunch of pic and videos and then after i get them froma distenc im confront them about and have my friend pull up and if you dont say nun i feel like that be fake friend or L mans and then my firend would get upset at me prolly because i didnt tell them or say nun so im let them know wsp

Spencer .S. 1A

12/18/2023 08:50:27 am

I would call my best friend in that moment and tell her to come to where i'm at, but if she cant make it then i would tell her in that moment that her person is cheating and show her the videos.

jaylon w

12/18/2023 02:35:25 pm

I agree because I feel like its the right thing to do if its your best friend

Glover D

12/20/2023 09:02:37 am

i agree i would call my friend tell them to pull up and i would show them that moment if we was on face time and after that they pull up i prolly leave and let them handle the rest

Nathan Jones 1A

12/18/2023 08:54:40 am

In this situation I would for capture pics and vids and call my best friend and let them know what i seen along with the footage and where they go from there is up to them.

Smith N 3a

12/18/2023 12:24:28 pm

I agree with having some kind of evidence because they might be in denial

Camarillo M 3A

12/18/2023 12:24:58 pm

I agree with you, and see what would happen between them

jaylon w

12/18/2023 02:35:49 pm

I agree because I feel like you need proof

L Speed 1A

12/18/2023 08:58:49 am

I would tell him because I'm trying to look out for him and make sure he doesn't get played by someone he thought was loyal.

J. Lira 7B

12/18/2023 09:44:41 am

Although you might lose your best friend, you should have that personal courage to inform them of the situation. Before you tell them, you should also record or take pictures, that way you have evidence. As their best friend you are obligated to look after each other and have each other's back.

D Cruz 3A

12/18/2023 12:22:30 pm

I agree especially with the part that it could be possible to lose your best friend because for some people they may be in denial and get mad at you for bringing it to their attention, but if you really care for someone I think it's your responsibility to tell them that their partner's loyalty doesn't side with them.

C.Cofield 3A

12/18/2023 12:29:16 pm

I 100 percent agree with you on that because you're supposed to be best friends. I believe that you should always want to have your friends back and want to see them successful.

Sergio Morales link

12/18/2023 12:34:07 pm

Sergio Morales-3A-
If that best friend somehow decides to blame this on you, then they are not worth keeping as a best friend. There should be no negative effect that should go against you in this situation. It's just delusional.

Nathan Jones 1A

12/20/2023 09:14:15 am

I agree because you need proof and a picture and a video is the best evidence

zyan

12/18/2023 12:19:09 pm

If I seen something like that you got to take a picture and call an tell your bestfriend, because if you don't and they find out and they also know you where there and did not tell them it would cause a lost of trust.

D Cruz 3A

12/18/2023 12:20:00 pm

I personally would tell my best friend respectfully that I saw something very suspicious with her significant other. However I would catch evidence first because when you truly like someone it's normal to be in denial and it could set something off in the friendship even if you assumed you were doing the right thing. When I tell my best friend, I'd do it face to face or video call if necessary so I can be there to console her.

D Lopez 3a

12/18/2023 12:20:22 pm

I would obviously call my best friend and tell them their boyfriend/girlfriend is with someone else. Its the right thing to do instead of him/her finding out some other way.

Smith N 3a

12/18/2023 12:21:24 pm

I would tell my friend that there partner is doing something because if i dont then how would that make me look

Madi Snyder 6B

12/18/2023 09:25:28 pm

There would 100% be a lack of trust between you and your bestie. Your right in saying do something, but you have to keep in mind every action you make it also effects your best friend.

Books Travis

12/18/2023 12:21:40 pm

I am going to simply Facetime bro and take his "girlfriend" the phone and let her sit in shock knowing she just got caught up.

e.Maso3a

12/18/2023 12:21:51 pm

I am going to let my girlfriend witness and make sure i'm seeing right, after i make sure i'm not imagining things i then tell my friend whats going on and record some evidence. It's best to not let situations like this go unnoticed, because it would suck if it was the other way around and your friend had the opportunity to say something. Nobody wants to waste their time especially if it comes to someone you deeply enjoy being with and they dont feel the same.

z swain 3a

12/18/2023 12:22:42 pm

First and foremost I'm pressing both of them off top because they told bold to be out in public. Then, I'm going to call my best friend and flip the camera and let them see what they significant other got going on behind their back.

Q Sanders 3A

12/18/2023 12:23:06 pm

I would take a photo of them first then send them to my best friend to make sure to see if he knows the guy if not i would tell him everything that happen

Camarillo M 3A

12/18/2023 12:23:19 pm

To be completely honest, i would take a picture and send it to my best friend and show them that. it's not worth dating nor wasting your breath on a cheating prick, but of course if my best friend doesn't believe me then i don't know what else to say, but i already should my prove that there bf/gf is clearly cheating on them. But if they do believe me and they confront on there lover it'll be a very good tea and hopefully i get permission to hurt the person .

Contreras M 6b

12/19/2023 12:03:57 pm

I feel like you should ask before to tell them about the situation. I say this because sometimes you just never know. Of course I think you should still tell them before someone else does and comfort them the best you can.

Sergio Morales link

12/18/2023 12:24:10 pm

Sergio Morales-3A-
Well, right off the top of my head I would follow them. I will try to outpace them and get a recording of their faces, either while they are walking away or getting into their car. I won't make a scene with the best friends lover and I'll just just hope he or she doesn't notice me recording them.Then when I have visible proof recorded then I'll head back inside the restaurant and carry on like nothing happened. Just finish dinner then I'll worry about it later. Once dinner is over and I have time to kill, I will then message my best friend the whole situation with proof.

D. Hurth

12/18/2023 12:24:10 pm

I would quickly contact my best friend, but i would get evidence because the girl could easily try to say i'm just trying to break them up for no reason , but if I take pictures I could easily beat that accusation and save my best friend from that broken relationship.

alexandra green 4A

12/18/2023 02:43:30 pm

facts i would the same because some people don't just belive what people say like me I need to prove . so I would agree on that one

A Bradley 6B

12/19/2023 11:03:00 am

I agree because you always need evidence because you might tell your friend and they wont believe you.

Sanchez 6B

12/19/2023 11:23:44 am

I believe if they dont believe you then they put more importance and priority on their boyfriend/girlfriend than your ¨friendship¨ if they were truly your friend they would,ve believed you i believe trust is really important in a relationship with someone. Although i also wouldve taken a picture and show it to them even if they didnt believe me in the beginning.

C.Cofield 3A

12/18/2023 12:24:20 pm

I would have to gather some sort of evidence while they're still at the establishment. Before letting my friend know as respectfully as I could how his other has been acting while he's not around.

Tyren D 4A

12/18/2023 02:44:11 pm

i agree with statement but thing only thing i would do different is let him know hes getting cheated on in the most disrespectful way

Alynette Delgado 6B

12/19/2023 10:54:58 am

I agree with this but also you should still let them know since they might know something and can get to the point faster.

zyheem

12/18/2023 12:30:04 pm

good day

D.McGee 3A

12/18/2023 01:22:54 pm

I would tell my best friend, but before i tell him i would make sure my date sees it and when we tell him he'll believe us. If he dont ill say okay and just let him find out the hard way.

kareya g 4a

12/18/2023 02:50:11 pm

Yeaaaa that's a good way to handle it. make sure the dates see it anddd imma take pics for extra receipts. and ofcourse if they don't wanna believe it thats on them they are just silly especially if they're still being loyal and putting their all into the rls.

Haines B.

12/18/2023 02:26:14 pm

i would tell the friend that i saw them with someone else

alexandra green 4A

12/18/2023 02:40:44 pm

i agree because i bet your friend would do the same for you

J. Kinard (4A)

12/18/2023 02:31:19 pm

I'm almost forced by circumstance to tell my best friend. Getting cheated on can be devastating depending on the person, and it's better to learn it sooner than later. I would let them down as gently as I can, and help them as it goes.

Tyren D 4A

12/18/2023 02:41:33 pm

I agree because if you were to get cheated on and someone you knew who you call your "best friend" saw and didn't tell you ,they are simply not your best friend

A Bradley 4A

12/18/2023 02:34:17 pm

In this situation, I would secretly record or take a picture of them and send it to her so I can show her proof that he's cheating on my best friend.

kareya g 4a

12/18/2023 02:46:04 pm

I agree! cause some people be tryna act like you been wanting them to break up or just won't believe you like what I gotta liie for.

C. Deane 6B

12/19/2023 10:58:35 am

I think this is too far, it is between your best friend to find out who the other person.

Jaylon W

12/18/2023 02:34:48 pm

Im telling my friend there getting cheated on if its my best friend but otherwise ain't my business

Tyren D 4A

12/18/2023 02:39:12 pm

I agree with this because if you are not involved and you tell the other person they are getting cheated on then now you are involved.

Hernandez A. 4A

12/18/2023 02:36:01 pm

If I try to tell my best friend that his girlfriend is with someone else he won't believe me,but if I took a picture of them together then my best friend would believe me.

Romello Groomes

12/18/2023 02:36:14 pm

What I would do is tell my friend and tell ‘‘em how it is

Tyren D 4A

12/18/2023 02:37:59 pm

Im not goin lie if i see some stuff like that im telling bro get his get back and then ask her if she cheated then if she says no or try to lie send keep it moving

Alexandra green 4A

12/18/2023 02:38:44 pm

I not going to lie i would have told my bestfriend the time i seen it . I feel like I would do what my bestfriend would do if it was me in the same thing for me my bestfriend would do the same.

cook T, 4A

12/18/2023 02:42:11 pm

in this situation I would take a picture to show my best friends then I'll confront their cheater of a boyfriend/girlfriend and I yell at them then I'll go and tell my best friend and show them the evidence and then ill comfort them and be there for them as best as I can and as best as they allow me to

Madi Snyder 6B

12/18/2023 09:23:39 pm

Sometimes all you can do is be there for them but at the same time, taking control over the situation can be tempting

kareya g

12/18/2023 02:42:42 pm

If I witness my best friend's boyfriend out to dinner with someone else, I would take pictures and videos for proof. I then tell my best friend I have something to tell her when i get home tonight. After my date when i go home imma call her and ask if they still tg n stuff. Then tell her that I see them out with somebody else and show her the pictures and videos I took. Thenn imma ask her what she gone do about it. and ask her if we're gone beat him up or slash the tires or whatever.

C, Ramirez 3A

12/18/2023 11:25:16 pm

I do not blame you for wanting to slash the person's tires. It's better to take your anger out on something the loved instead of the actual person.

A,Martinez 6B

12/19/2023 10:53:39 am

It’s good you don’t immediately assume it’s cheating and you check in with your friend, but slashing tires might be much as if you get caught you escalate the situation a lot more

T Samuels 6b

12/19/2023 10:56:26 am

It's understandable that you want to support your friend, but rather than immediately suggesting extreme actions such as fighting, focus on being there for her emotionally. You should share the evidence calmly and let her decide how she wants to handle the situation. It's important to approach these situations with a level head and encourage a thoughtful resolution instead of encouraging her to do something she might regret.

A Giles 6B

12/19/2023 10:57:50 am

I mean I would slash some tires too but I do not want to be the one held responsible and pay for the tires if I am caught. Also I would do the same thing If i find him with another girl.

Martinez, P 3A

12/18/2023 02:44:58 pm

It's okay to approach and somewhat not because number their on a date and you'll ruin it. You could wait till the next day or the day you and your friend talks.

K Jacinto 4A

12/18/2023 02:59:10 pm

I would go up to my best friend and tell them and let them know they are getting cheated on. I cant stand and watch my friend get done like that. Im be a W manz and let him know, because if it was happening with me he would let me know too.

R Arpero 7B

12/19/2023 10:23:35 am

I agree with you kevin I would also do the same with my best friend

Abraham Martinez 6B

12/19/2023 10:48:53 am

Honesty is the best policy especially when it comes to a friend

Madi Snyder 6B

12/18/2023 09:22:49 pm

ALL HELL WOULD BREAK LOOSE. I don't play around about cheating and I don't care who it is. If I went out and saw that I would face time my bestie and walk up to them and hand the phone to her now ex boyfriend. Then after she gives him the well deserved yelling, I would punch/slap him in the face. There is a quote that I love by johnny depp that reads "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second." So other then the fact if he wanted to be with someone else he should have just left, it is 100% my place to say something becasue she would be my bestie in this situation.

C, Ramirez 3A

12/18/2023 11:30:36 pm

Who wouldn't be mad at the fact that your home girl's man is cheating on her? Johnny Depp's quote is true to its word. There is no point in apologizing for cheating, since if you really loved that person, you wouldn't have cheated in the first place.

C, Ramirez 3A

12/18/2023 10:54:01 pm

Honestly, who wouldn't tell their friend about what they saw? If you don't tell your bestie what you saw, are you even friends? I would immediately tell my friend what I saw. I would take photos as evidence if she doesn't believe me, which would be rare because friends come before guys. I would also make my significant other take photos as proof that he saw it too. There is no reason you shouldn't tell your BEST friend what you saw. If you let him snitch on himself and your bestie eventually finds out, you knew, and you didn't tell them they're going to be more mad at you than at their significant other. That betrayal.

Alynette Delgado 6B

12/19/2023 10:53:06 am

I agree with this person since, I think the same way about the situation.

Z.woods 6b

12/19/2023 10:55:50 am

Yes, I agree loyalty is most important in a friendship. If you don't tell your best friend something shady is going on behind there back , you are not a real friend.

A Bethany

12/19/2023 12:42:36 pm

I agree but I once told one of my friends that their significant other was disrespecting them, they stayed so some people you just don't tell things to.

R Arpero 7B

12/19/2023 10:22:05 am

To be completely honest, I would take a picture and send it to my best friend and show them. it's not worth dating and there's no breath to cheat but of course if my best friend doesn't believe me I don't know what else to say but I should already prove that the bf/gf is clearly cheating on them. But if they believe me and meet a loved one there, that is a very good way and hopefully I will be allowed to hurt a person.

T Samuels 6b

12/19/2023 10:52:26 am

I agree with you because sharing the evidence with your best friend is a straightforward approach, ensuring transparency. However, be prepared for various emotions and reactions from your best friend. Honesty is the foundation, and supporting your friend through the process is essential.

B Jasso 6B

12/19/2023 10:42:22 am

I would honestly tell my best friend because they have a right to know that their girlfriend or boyfriend is cheating, but before I do that i'd probably take pictures or videos secretly, so that I could have evidence to support the "accusation" knowing my best friend.

C. Deane 6B

12/19/2023 10:57:01 am

i agree you should let your best friend know.

D Davis 6B

12/19/2023 10:43:38 am

I'd definitely take a picture or video of what I'm seeing. I'd confront them about it before telling my friend and showing them the proof.

R Rinehart 6B

12/19/2023 11:05:14 am

I think it would destroy my soul if I found out someone was cheating on me, especially if I found out that way.

N Echeverria

12/19/2023 11:13:49 am

I agree with this comment, because it is the same thing I would do.

Joshua Deleon 6B

12/19/2023 11:20:56 am

Yeah I would take a picture too but then tell my friend later because could not be the one to confront my best friends girlfriend whether or not she is cheating.

Braeden Penson

12/19/2023 11:42:01 am

I agree with the video part but the adress it in person part is a lil wild

M Contreras 6B

12/19/2023 10:47:03 am

Others may think it's not any of your business to involve yourself in these situations. However I disagree, I feel that you need to say something when seeing that sort of thing. Personally I would take a picture but before sending it to my friend I would ask if they are still together because you never know. Then send the picture and explain the situation.

R, Brown 7B

12/19/2023 12:43:06 pm

Such a respectful response. I would do the same, but I wouldn't confront them. That would make things worse and it also wouldn't be my place

Abraham Martinez 6B

12/19/2023 10:47:36 am

I would first take a photo of all of there heinous acts. I will then after I finish my date will go over to my friends while there cheating partner is not home show them the evidence and be a good friend and leave cause I’m not staying for the drama! lol

R Rinehart 6B

12/19/2023 11:02:50 am

I don't think I would take pictures, I would probably call my friend to come there.

jadian rivers 7b

12/19/2023 12:47:54 pm

i disagree wit this because i wouldn't want my best friend to be fighting and embarrassing her self we can handled that outside somewhere else if thats what she wanna do.

kanye lombardo 7b

12/19/2023 12:44:24 pm

nah i dont agree i would leave it alone

T Samuels 6b

12/19/2023 10:48:19 am

It's a complicated situation, but respecting your best friend's relationship is kind of crucial. I honestly would suggest discussing it with your best friend privately, expressing what you witnessed, and letting them decide how to proceed. In most situations communication is key in navigating delicate matters like this.

kanye lombardo 7b

12/19/2023 12:44:48 pm

facts

Z.woods 6b

12/19/2023 10:49:57 am

In that situation, I would call my best friend as soon as they walked out. We would be on facetime so I can directly show her and give him the phone.

A Giles 6B

12/19/2023 10:50:19 am

Without a doubt I would automatically take pictures and stalk this person I DONT CAREEE I will get all the evidence to prove to my best friend that this man sucks and that they are not good for them. I let my date know what is going on and if they are mad oh well my bestfriend matters more.

Nox (Katelyn) Sears 8b

12/19/2023 12:27:55 pm

I would turn into a whole FBI agent. I am not letting ANYTHING slide. I will capture every detail. Everything I can get to show my best friend she deserves wayyyyy better.

Natalee Sears 7B

12/19/2023 01:18:24 pm

I agree with this because my friend does not deserve to be treated this way.

Alynette Delgado 6B

12/19/2023 10:51:07 am

I would probably Facetime my Best Friend on the spot and show her what is happening and have my boyfriend back me up. Because if it would have been me in that position I would want her to tell me that my boyfriend is cheating on me.

Natalee Sears 7B

12/19/2023 12:43:05 pm

I completely agree with this because your friend deserves to know what's going on. You wouldn't want to be in that position.

A,Martinez 7B

12/19/2023 01:20:32 pm

I agree, treat others how you would want to be treated. I would want my friend to tell me if my significant other was cheating on me.

C. Deane 6B

12/19/2023 10:54:09 am

i would tell them that i saw their girlfriend with another person, i wouldn't go into depth on who the person was, i would let them figure that out on their own.

A Bethany

12/19/2023 12:43:50 pm

I would also, but If it was to happen again and they chose to stay with them, I wouldn't ever help them again.

jadian rivers 7b

12/19/2023 12:45:24 pm

I agree with this because i wouldn't go into detail but i would def tell

A Bradley 6B

12/19/2023 10:54:21 am

I would tell my friend. If you found out important information that your friend should know and not tell him then your not being a good friend to him. Even if it's not what he wants to hear, you have to think if you were in that situation you would want to know or you would be mad if people knew and hadn't told you.

N Echeverria 6B

12/19/2023 11:11:14 am

This comment is right, If I was in this place I would like to know about it.

M Roberson 8B

12/19/2023 02:51:59 pm

I agree with what you said. I would also tell them. I think I would tell them what happened right away.

M Fairley 6B

12/19/2023 10:55:49 am

I would take photos of the people and send it to my bestie. I would be hella confused and be like "Is your bf supposed to be hanging out with a friend today?" and if not then we both would've probably screamed (via text) at the same time that he's cheating. I would just kinda stalk the boyfriend from afar and continue to send photos to my friend, and also comfort them of course.

Sanchez 6B

12/19/2023 10:56:38 am

I wouldve taking a picture and told her obviously. Although i woudnt confront them because i feel it is my friends position to go and confront them unless she tells me too.Of course i will just be there as a friend and comfort them and help her in whatever she needs. When in tough situations all you need is someone as support.

Joshua Deleon 6B

12/19/2023 11:19:42 am

I agree i would not confront them but i would get proof I know that my friend would want to know. I understand minding my buisness but i think i have to get involved, at the end of the day its what you believe is right.

R, Brown 7B

12/19/2023 12:41:37 pm

I love your response to this situation. I would definitely do the same because at that point that person doesn't deserve my friend.

C Nwachukwu 7B

12/19/2023 12:46:27 pm

I agree that it's my friend's job to confront them because if I do it myself things might go left.

R Rinehart 6B

12/19/2023 11:00:04 am

I would probably let my friend know. If I was getting cheated on I would want to be told. It would kill my soul if I was getting cheated on behind my back.

Nox (Katelyn) Sears 8b

12/19/2023 12:26:50 pm

I want to be told if I am being cheated on! i agree. I would tell her on sight!

N. Echeverria

12/19/2023 11:08:21 am

I would go up to them and confront them but before, I will take pictures and make sure that my best friend is with them. Then I will tell them that what they are doing is not eight.

James Leslie 1A

12/20/2023 02:59:29 pm

You right for letting them know but getting in their face and stuff is doing to much.

Joshua Deleon 6B

12/19/2023 11:13:37 am

I know that i would tell my best friend especially if i know what type of friends i got. i know my Friends would want to know about that. I woudl tel my friends that their significant other is cheating right away, I will even get proof.

M. Moore 8B

12/19/2023 02:47:45 pm

This is so real, my friends want to know everything. I'd do what I think is best and totally tell them because my friends mean a lot to me.

B Penson 7B

12/19/2023 11:41:11 am

As its not my significant other but my friends i would look and even get a lil photo evidence for proof but im not addressing it cause it isnt my girlfriend. At the end ima tell my friend though.

C Nwachukwu 7B

12/19/2023 12:45:26 pm

I agree because some people don't believe you when you tell them stuff like that, so it's crucial to have evidence unless they've been suspicious for a while.

George Kessebeh

12/19/2023 12:47:09 pm

Facts

Nox (Katelyn) Sears 8b

12/19/2023 12:25:50 pm

First of all I am getting all the evidence I need, because I am not trying to ruin my friendship. Then of course I am going to tell her! I am not going to hide the fact that my best friends boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on her. I am her friend for a reason. His name is going into the grave. I will tell her EVERYTHING. No hiding shit from her.

George Kessebeh

12/19/2023 12:42:44 pm

Facts i cant let any of that slide because i wouldnt want somebody doing that to me .

A,Martinez 7B

12/19/2023 01:18:48 pm

I agree that there is a reason to be best friends with someone. Especially when you want someone to have your back.

Nicholas Parker 7B

12/19/2023 12:34:41 pm

If i saw my partner with someone else that is not me, i would leave immediately without saying a word. They clearly are happy with someone else so i would leave the relationship.

R, Brown 7B

12/19/2023 12:40:15 pm

First off loyalty is the most important thing in a friendship/relationship. If I saw that happen I would immediately stop what i'm doing and tell my friend. My friends come first over somebody that doesn't deserve them. I would even take a photo.

M. Moore 8B

12/19/2023 02:46:23 pm

I agree, loyalty can truly break or make a friendship and knowing the information I know I'd tell my friend.

M Roberson 8B

12/19/2023 02:46:44 pm

I agree with what you said. I'd also grab proof and show them. Ill give them a description of the setting also.

Dontae Eley 8B

12/19/2023 03:09:16 pm

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D Costilla 4A

12/20/2023 02:44:28 pm

Loyalty and honesty really is the most important thing. Yes, it sucks having to be the person who would have to deliver the news. But being the one who got cheated on is 10x worse. I would also immediately drop everything I was doing and let my best friend know what I just witnessed, asap.

Natalee Sears 7B

12/19/2023 12:40:16 pm

I would confront the boyfriend/girlfriend and ask what the heck is going on because no one hurts my best friend. Then I would call my best friend and show them what's going on and tell them that their partner isn't worth it and they should come confront them. Then afterwards we could go out for a girls day and make their day better.

I.Onuoha 8B

12/19/2023 02:58:06 pm

To a certain extent i agree. While me and you would go different ways on how to handle this, i could see the possibility of confronting them. It just shows the extent in which they'll go to defend their best friend.

A Bethany

12/19/2023 12:40:32 pm

In this situation the type of person I used to be I would have told. Now I wouldn't say anything because usually people choose to stay.

James Leslie 1A

12/20/2023 02:54:16 pm

You right but still you gotta let your best friend know even if you think they would stay they stil l have to know

Thomas Freeman

12/19/2023 12:40:56 pm

I would of course tell my friend. Their well being means a lot to me and to see their trust broken like that affects me. So yes I would tell my friend.

7b Rivers Jadian

12/19/2023 12:41:16 pm

if i was in this section i would tell! taking pictures of all that . I'm not finna let my friend get cheated on .

George Kessebeh

12/19/2023 12:41:31 pm

If i was to EVER peep that ! i would pull out my iphone 15 max so fast and capture ever single evidence .

M. Evbuomwan 8B

12/19/2023 02:58:30 pm

true i would do this too

J. Lira 7B

12/19/2023 12:42:15 pm

In this occasion you need to speak about it no matter the circumstances. Although, they will end up getting hurt and will most likely result in the breaking of their relationship, however as their best friend you are entitled to tell them. You shouldn't want to see your best friend in a relationship where he is miserable.

I.Onuoha 8B

12/19/2023 02:55:00 pm

This makes sense. Most friendships are ended when one side is Withholding information benefical to the both of them so not speaking up in this situation would more than likely cause a falling out between them.

C Valdez 1A

12/20/2023 09:01:29 am

I agree on telling them under any circumstance because it's important they know soon rather than wasting time on someone that's unfaithful. Not telling your best friend can make them lose trust towards you and could make them stop being friends with you out of mistrust. I wouldn't want to know I didn't tell my friend he was in a bad relationship so I would tell him soon after finding out.

D Costilla 4A

12/20/2023 02:41:34 pm

I strongly agree with the fact that you would both have to speak about it no matter the circumstances. Many people wouldn't want to get involved or be the reason why a break up could possibly occurred. Overall, one wouldn't want to break their best friends heart, but in the situation sating the truth is the right thing to do.

kanye lombardo

12/19/2023 12:43:58 pm

it would depend on who the friend is and what there relationship is. If they are cheating to i wouldnt say anything

M.Evbuomwan 8b

12/19/2023 03:00:39 pm

yes i agree how close you are to the person affects if you can be honest with them or not

Stewart z

12/20/2023 09:33:12 am

I agree with this because not everyone is your real friend so you need to know where you stand with people.

C Nwachuwku 7B

12/19/2023 12:44:17 pm

I would be a W mans and tell my bestfriend. It might hurt for them to know that information, but at the end of the day if they're being loyal and getting cheated then they deserve better and getting rid of them is that.

A,Martinez 7B

12/19/2023 01:16:49 pm

I will first capture some evidence to prove what I'm seeing with my own eyes. Then I will provide my friend with the information, and I will let them do what they must as it is not my right to confront the significant other.

A. Green 8b

12/19/2023 02:42:23 pm

For me, this is an obvious choice, I would tell my best friend. If their partner would go out of their way to cheat and try to get away with it, they need to know. Who knows how long this has been going on, and maybe she is suspicious of her partner. All I know is that I will not be guilty by association.

M. Moore 8B

12/19/2023 02:43:12 pm

Considering I know the feeling of betrayal, I think I'd tell my friend. My friends mean a lot to me I would never want to betray their trust by not telling them if I see something. I've been in love and have experienced looking stupid while having no idea what was going on. I would personally want to know and think it's right my friend should know too.

M Roberson 8B

12/19/2023 02:45:30 pm

In this situation my first reaction is to think. Is it them or is it not them? I would go to the rest room then facetime my friend to show them that their significant other was out with someone else. I would tell them.

A. Sanchez 8b

12/19/2023 02:48:04 pm

If I were to see that and if I were to say something with or without proof it will cause unnecessary drama that will eventually be placed in my life with that in mind it will be better to just keep quiet and it will be easy since my best friend's boyfriend or girlfriend didn't knew I was there in the first place.

I.Onuoha 8B

12/19/2023 02:51:06 pm

If i saw my best friend's girlfriend at a restaurant in a part of town i rarely visit and i saw her with someone else that's not my best friend, i would first try to get some sort of picture of them. Then, i would try to call my best friend and ask him about his relationship. If he says him and his girlfriend aren't dating anymore then i won't show him the photo. If they are still dating then i would send him the photo of the two of them. The biggest factor to all of this is the fact that i'm in a town that i rarely visit. Maybe in this town they do things differently than the town i stay in. Regardless, i would more than likely try to have confirmation rather than aggravate.

A. Sanchez 8b

12/19/2023 02:58:29 pm

That is true other factors can be considered on this too you just cant go and assume things right away.

M. Evbuomwan 8B

12/19/2023 02:53:58 pm

i would say something to my friend because i feel like it is my obligation to be truthful to my friend especially when their boyfriend/girlfriend is not

Stewart z

12/20/2023 09:32:01 am

I agree because if yall are real friends its just right that you tell your friend

Dontae Eley 8B

12/19/2023 03:00:03 pm

I will become the biggest opposition to those two individuals. I would record and gather every info I can get on her and set her up for failure when she tries to do anything nice with my friend again, so she can be humiliated in public. (Respectfully.👹)

daniel g

12/19/2023 03:00:22 pm

I would make sure to get some evidence in the form of a photo or video, and then plan a good way to tell my friend. they should not be left in the dark for something like this and it would be very wrong to do so.

C.lott 3A

12/20/2023 01:37:23 pm

I disagree, When discussing the issue, it's important to be honest, supportive, and non-judgmental. Express your concerns and observations while also giving your friend a chance to explain their side of the story. Be prepared for different reactions, as your friend might deny the situation, become defensive, or feel embarrassed initially.

C Valdez 1A

12/19/2023 10:29:12 pm

If I was in that situation I would let me friend know he was being cheated on in case he didn't already know. I would ask my friend first if he was still in the relationship with that person and I wouldn't want to break my friend's trust so I would tell them. The reason I think that it's better to let my friend know rather than them figuring themselves is to help my friend not waste time on someone they can't trust and to help them out.

M Johnson 1A

12/20/2023 08:46:53 am

I think that you should say something and take video for proof because if you don't say anything Your a L friend for keeping them in the dark.

Lee J A1

12/20/2023 08:52:50 am

If I saw my best friend's partner with someone else, I'd be really worried, but I wouldn't just assume stuff I'd tell my best friend what I saw, but I'd be careful about it. I wouldn't make it sound like I'm spreading rumors. I'd just be honest about what I saw. After all, it's their relationship, not mine. I'm just there to help my friend.

Hermione Fears

12/20/2023 09:20:42 am

I would facetime my bestfriend immediately and tell her whats going on in the most kindest serious possible way ever

C.lott 3A

12/20/2023 01:30:34 pm

I diagree, Discuss with your best friend: When you feel ready and have collected your thoughts, consult your best friend about what you witnessed. Approach the conversation with sensitivity, focusing on your concern for their well-being. Be prepared for various responses, including denial or defensiveness.

Stewart z

12/20/2023 09:28:42 am

I would say something to my friend because i don´t want my friend looking dumb cause she in love and the boy out here doing whatever.

C.lott 3A

12/20/2023 01:28:22 pm

Choose a suitable time and place to talk privately with your best friend's girlfriend/boyfriend. Express what you saw, how it made you feel, and your concerns for your best friend. Communicate calmly, without aggression or confrontation, and be prepared for their reaction.

Haines B. 4A

12/20/2023 02:33:43 pm

i would be the snich and tell my friend wats going on

xylon jordan

12/20/2023 02:36:11 pm

i would tell my friend because i would won't my friend to tell me if my partner is being unfaithful too me

D. Costilla

12/20/2023 02:36:32 pm

Best believe I'm immediately cancelling my date early and calling my best friend to let her know i'm going over to her place. And i'm going to be honest with her and let her know what I just witnessed. Because nobody especially my best friend deserves to be cheated on. I would never hide witnessing anything like that. Never. If I were to not say anything about it, then I would be just as guilty as the cheater.

J. Lira 7B

12/21/2023 11:39:06 am

It is likely that your best friend might not believe you so it is also important to get evidence. But I do agree with you because as their best friend you are obligated to take care of one another.

jaylon w

12/20/2023 02:37:30 pm

i would snitch if its my bsf

James Leslie 1A

12/20/2023 02:47:50 pm

If i was in that situation i would let my tell my bestfriend becaue i cant let them go out sad like that I would let them know this and that so they know what it is with their partner.

D Sparks 1A

12/21/2023 11:46:57 am

I would say something to my friend about it and make sure he is aware of the situation. If it was me in the situation I would want my friend to tell me. Also, I am a firm believer of “if you see something, say something”.

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