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Maletine's Day

2/23/2026

 
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First, we only had Valentine's Day. Then, along came GALentine's Day. And now...

Maletine's Day.

On February 14th, a group of men got together and decided to celebrate their singleness and bond on Valentine's Day. But the Internet was not having it. What started as an opportunity for men to chill and have a good time without female interruption quickly turned into a social media debate.

Now, critics whisper that moves like this reflect a shift in traditional expectations of men. They claim that men today are more emotional, reactive, dependent, and less disciplined than previous generations. In other words, males seem to yell, scream, cry, rage out and expect to be pampered or financially supported by partners more than any other era in history.

But then supporters say something different. They say, while men are finally being given space to feel, communicate, and reject outdated standards of masculinity, the very thing women complained that men did not do (cry, communicate, express how they feel), their actions are being weaponized.

Still others say men are using this trend to avoid accountability, discipline, and emotional strength and disguising it as vulnerability.

They call this the "soft man era," a social media term used to describe a cultural shift in how some men express masculinity. It often refers to men who are more emotionally open, less traditionally dominant, and more vocal about their personal needs in relationships.
Let's Write!: How have expectations of masculinity changed over the past few years?

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​​Due Fri., February 27, 11:59 p.m. CST
Banda, 1A
2/26/2026 09:54:01 am

I feel like masculinity has changed in many ways but for the good. Now instead of men holding everything in for the sake of being "masculine" the world has changed in a way where their allowed to be peope with emotions. Most men are more accepting of traditionally feminine things especially when it comes to daughter or wives.

Fraire.Y 1A
2/26/2026 10:19:48 am

Yes i agree now they are allowd to show emotion and be able to express themselfs and not be as juged when they do.

vine jaylon 4b
2/27/2026 09:16:48 am

i agree boys should open up they feelings more our feelings dont be hearing alot most females really care about they feelings than guys so i think this in cool was an guy nothing wrong with it

Armani Cordova 7B
2/26/2026 08:23:47 pm

Allowing men to show their emotions can reduce the mental health crisis within men.

vine jaylon 4b
2/27/2026 09:18:45 am

yes men mental health is important express our feeling with each others nothing wrong with it

Carpenter Z 2A
2/27/2026 11:57:10 pm

I agree with this when your able to release your emotions its allows you be yourself and being yourself does reduce stress on your well being.

Taylor, M 7B
3/4/2026 03:51:14 pm

This is true, and it also allows men to be themselves. Some people are naturally more emotional or outgoing than others, regardless of gender.

Amanda Lama B5
2/27/2026 09:04:15 am

I agree that guys now feel okay with being able to express their emotions its a thing that I think everyone needs to feel safe to do.

Garcia K 1A
2/27/2026 10:18:38 am

I agree they should be able to be themselves and not let the expectations of masculinity define you

Carpenter Z 2A
2/27/2026 11:55:42 pm

I agree with this emotions play a big part in this now in the conversation about ones masculinity.

Taylor, M 7B
3/4/2026 03:49:20 pm

I agree it's changing, and will only continue to change. Over time modern masculinity will be completely different from what's traditional.

Garcia K 1A
2/26/2026 09:57:53 am

I feel like people have started to see masculinity differently, encouraging men to share their feelings instead of always acting tough and unemotional. Some think this change is healthy, while others believe it can sometimes be used as an excuse to avoid responsibility.

Hurtado J 7B
2/27/2026 11:42:27 am

I agree with men should be able to express there feelings with no fear of being judged in a way them showing there feelings makes them feel healed from other traumas as well.

Watson S
2/26/2026 10:04:47 am

The standards of masculinity has changed over the years. Men have gone so downhill with being gentlemen, It's rare for a man to even open the door for their lady. However that is not the only reason masculinity declines, the more society is accepting to the LGBTQ community, it will result in more gay males coming out. Which means they wont have to mask how they feel, most likely that they want to feel more feminine.

Fraire.Y 1A
2/26/2026 10:23:01 am

i agree it has been more of acceped but people are also encureging men to show emotion so people can see how they feel.

Calito V.
2/27/2026 10:06:04 am

I agree that there are less gentlemen these days and that the LGBTQ community has changed society's views on masculinity.

Skylar B. 6B
2/27/2026 06:41:00 pm

That is very true sometimes I will be out somewhere and see that a man will just open the door for themselves but not for the women. That was always strange to me I thought a man should open a door for women no matter what.

Fraire.Y 1A
2/26/2026 10:16:12 am

i feel like people started to look at masculinity diffrent, because now men are encuraged to show more emotion but before the were encureged to do that they were told to not show any emotion or to be though.

Armani Cordova 7B
2/26/2026 08:22:10 pm

I agree with this comment and its true men where grown up not to show emotions because is was labeled as they were weak.

Garcia K 1A
2/27/2026 10:20:28 am

I agree just because men show emotion doesn't make them weak

Gathu S. 1A
2/27/2026 09:32:43 pm

i agree expectations really have shifted over time. It’s good that men can express emotions more now without being judged, because that can lead to healthier relationships and better understanding.

Gonzalez,A 2A
3/3/2026 09:29:30 am

I agree cause no matter our gender I feel like we should all be able to show some type of emotions and being our selfs without thinking what others will think.

Armani Cordova 7B
2/26/2026 07:42:51 pm

The standards of masculinity changes overtime.Traditional masculinity normally consisted more dominance,and showing some type of way to be a gentleman.Men especially black men were told boys don't cry which is a masculine stereotype because we are all human and show human emotions.Although during this new generation certain men want to be treated like they are the woman so woman became more dominant thought these years.

Amanda Lama B5
2/27/2026 09:07:08 am

I agree , I think its good that the stereotypes are being broken but at the same time some men have seek beyond that and really do be acting like they are or want to be the girl.

Hurtado J 7B
2/27/2026 11:40:37 am

Totally agree, it is important to break those stereotypes that we were raised with and to know that every human being has emotions.

Skylar B. 6B
2/27/2026 06:33:12 pm

Yes Men are very more open and comfortable to show their emotions. I feel like no matter what gender we are all human and we all should be able to show our emotions.

Amanda Lama B5
2/27/2026 09:02:14 am

I don't think the standards for men have changed, girls still want men to be expressive and vulnerable yet still be masculine, however I do agree that guys themselves standards have changed and I 100% agree with the term "soft boy era" where push it to the point that they act like they want to be the girlfriend, a lot of them lack being a gentlemen.

Calito V.
2/27/2026 10:00:53 am

I agree it has changed and men lack being gentlemen.

Calito V. 5B
2/27/2026 09:42:25 am

I think masculinity has changed over the past few years. Most men these days are less prideful, not as hard working, and they're not respectful to people whether it be toward women or other men. I think most people think it's just about pride and to not show emotion, I don't see like. I see as someone that has that is mature know what to do when things get serious. Most these days a lot of men take things as jokes while acting like they don't care about the consequences of their actions.

Gathu S. 1A
2/27/2026 08:22:02 pm

maturity being an important part of masculinity, especially when it comes to knowing how to act in serious situations. At the same time, I think it can be hard to judge an entire generation because people grow and mature at different rates.

Alfaro K. 1A
3/2/2026 09:56:26 pm

I agree with your comment; while emotional openness is important, many men today seem to struggle with balancing expression and responsibility.

Hurtado J 7B
2/27/2026 11:39:12 am

"Malentine’s Day" mirrors the "Galentine’s" movement, acknowledging that the male loneliness epidemic is real. It’s an attempt to normalize men investing in deep platonic bonds rather than relying solely on romantic partners for emotional support.

Skylar B. 6B
2/27/2026 06:08:25 pm

Yes, expectations of masculinity changed over the past few years. Men are more open to show their emotions instead of holding everything in themselves. They are more compassionate to their partners instead of just being tough and cold. Men are also not seen as the primary breadwinner anymore.

Gonzalez,A 2A
3/3/2026 09:28:08 am

I agree with your comment ,men now days are totally way more open to showing their emotions instead of holding everything, i also feel like they are this way sometimes because of what they were told growing up.

Gathu S. 1A
2/27/2026 07:48:08 pm

Many men no longer feel pressured to hide their emotions just to prove they are strong. Instead, there is more acceptance that being open about feelings is normal and healthy. It also seems like more men are supportive of things that used to be labeled as only feminine, especially in how they treat the women in their lives. A lot of people now also care less about others’ opinions and feel more confident being themselves.

Alfaro K. 1A
3/2/2026 09:58:21 pm

I agree with your comment, it’s encouraging to see men embracing emotional openness and rejecting outdated gender expectations while gaining confidence in being their authentic selves.

Carpenter Z 2A
2/27/2026 11:53:36 pm

the way it has changed was more people started to accepted those people about a different masculinity. which makes it more visible to people like us.

Alfaro K. 1A
3/2/2026 09:49:15 pm

I believe masculinity has evolved positively, allowing men to openly express their emotions instead of suppressing them to conform to an outdated notion of manliness. Today, many men embrace qualities once considered feminine, demonstrating understanding and support in their relationships with daughters, wives, and loved ones.

Gonzalez,A 2A
3/3/2026 09:26:22 am

I believe expectations of men has changed over the past years.Men feel more comfortable showing there true feelings and personalitys instead of always being "tough".

Taylor, M 7B
3/4/2026 03:47:40 pm

As the world has become more accepting of different things, it has slowly become more accepting of men speaking out and showing emotion. This is different compared to traditional masculinity.


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