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Hurt People Hurt People

10/27/2025

 
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​October is Bullying Prevention Month, but let’s be for real: bullying isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it hides behind jokes, silence, or a screen. Sometimes it’s the things we don’t say when we should. Whether it happens in school hallways or group chats, bullying leaves a mark that words alone can’t erase.

Here’s the truth: you can’t always stop people from being cruel, but you can decide not to join in, and that decision can change someone’s story.
Let's Write! ​What makes standing up for someone harder than standing by?
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​​Due Fri., October 31, 11:00 p.m. CST
LazariahP Powell 7B
10/28/2025 09:37:21 am

Some might feel standing up for others is harder than standing by because when you're standing up it takes courage or bravery, and that the fact that you are at risk of being targeted as well.

Martinez J 7B
10/28/2025 12:33:46 pm

I completely agree with being brave for taking the risk.

Larios, A 7B
10/28/2025 01:30:59 pm

I agree and sometimes standing by can hurt the person who is getting bullied even more.

Nunez B 7B
10/28/2025 02:12:35 pm

I agree with this statement because you do have to have enough strength to stand up to someone.

Watson, S 1A
10/29/2025 10:24:28 am

I agree but I think I would rather think confidently than like I'm a target because then whoever is the bully could sense that i am not confident. That would make me more of a target if I'm acting shy and quiet.

Cervantes Y 2A
10/29/2025 11:24:52 am

I agree because you need bravery to stand up to someone

Tylen G 3A
10/29/2025 12:20:57 pm

I agree with this because when you do stick up to someone who is bullying another you can git hit in the crossfire putting yourself in danger

Rubio I1A
10/29/2025 12:31:52 pm

Yes the courage/bravery is the hardest barrier, for people to get by in standing up for victims of bullying, and also the risk of being targeted back. I agree with your statement.

Taneilyha Jones-Blunt
10/29/2025 03:41:50 pm

I totally agree with this because it really be like this

Skylar B. 6B
10/31/2025 08:26:59 am

Absolutely standing up from someone takes real bravery and courage. You know its wrong but you don't have enough courage to stop it.

Perell White 1A
10/31/2025 09:08:09 am

I agree with this because most people don't want to stand up for others because they feel like they might be targeted

Martinez J 7B
10/28/2025 12:31:57 pm

It is harder to stand up for someone because people will start to bully you the same as the other person but standing by will hurt the person more than saving yourself from the trouble of standing up for them.

Larios, A 7B
10/28/2025 01:45:02 pm

I resonate with your comment, and I believe we all have free will. We can defend each other.

Krystal V 2A
10/29/2025 10:38:19 am

I agree, but I think that people don't ever really consider the "victims" when they decide to just stand by. If they did and if they had a bit of humanity and gall, they would realize that at the end of day we are all humans and standing up for someone in need is not weak.

Cervantes Y 2A
10/29/2025 11:36:22 am

I agree because a bully will start making fun of you and mess with you nexr

taneilyha jones-blunt
10/29/2025 03:42:33 pm

I agree

Skylar B. 6B
10/31/2025 08:29:15 am

I agree entirely with your point because sometimes you stick up for someone but you end up being the next target and get bullied more maybe even worse.

Perell White 1A
10/31/2025 09:11:08 am

I don't agree with this because it isn't hard to stand up for someone , anyone can stand up for someone it just the matter of , are you going to stand up for that person.

Larios, A 7B
10/28/2025 01:23:18 pm

Bullying can come from a friend with awful jokes and one may not recognize it. A lot of people are afraid of what will happen if they speak up. The humiliation could be even worse.

Martinez J 7B
10/28/2025 01:32:50 pm

I agree not many talk about the humiliation that comes with it.

Roilen B 2A
10/29/2025 10:17:15 am

I agree with being brave and taking the risk.

Watson, S 1A
10/29/2025 10:21:14 am

Yes when bullying comes from someone you think is your friend It could be hard to tell when something is a joke or they're actually making fun of you. However, if something hurts your feelings you can stand up for yourself and say something like "hey I dont know if you meant that jokingly but it hurt my feelings" if they don't apologize, they're not your friend.

Joaquin J 2A
10/29/2025 12:15:20 pm

I agree with this because this just shows you who is real and who is fake and it just brings out there true colors.People who you call friends could be the main ones who dont stand up for you and bully you.

Warren D
10/29/2025 02:25:19 pm

i agree because bullying do come from all diffent people and not just from people you dont know.

Newbill, T 1A
10/29/2025 10:38:39 am

Bully can come from so many different ways and forms which is so crazy and awful.Speaking up for someone shouldn't be as hard as joining the bully . Sometimes people dont know that someone is getting bullied because they are so deep in their ways . Even if you do decide to speak up to help someone they could get mad at your for just trying to help.

Tylen G 2A
10/29/2025 12:22:20 pm

Yes I agree with this person sometimes the people who hurt you the most can be people in your friend group..

Nunez, B 7B
10/28/2025 01:58:29 pm

Standing up for someone is harder than standing by them because of the pressure. Not a lot of people have enough courage, to get in betwen a something like that. Not like standing by you just mind your business.

kordae 2a
10/29/2025 10:16:08 am

I agree

Newbill , T
10/29/2025 10:30:54 am

most people tend to watch the bad things that happen to others and even join in ; just because of the simple fact that validation from others make them feel better. Being part of bullying even if you know its wrong is more common . Some people don't even realize that they're making fun of someone because its hidden in a joke .

Banda N 1A
10/29/2025 11:17:11 am

Validation is another big thing, feeling like you have community becomes top priority. People ignore the fact that they are hurting a person and don't think their actions have consequences. But why think about that when its easier to hurt someone and fit in.

Fraire.Y 1A
10/30/2025 09:03:30 am

Yes validation is a very big part why some people don't stand up for other because like you said they wont say something because they rather feel better about themselfs that they are not getting bullyed like the person they are not standing up for.

Luna, W 1A
10/29/2025 08:41:08 am

Standing up for someone is more difficult than standing by because it takes a lot of courage to say something or to do something. People fear on whats going to happen to them so they just stand by.

kordae2a
10/29/2025 10:16:29 am

I agree

Krystal V 2A
10/29/2025 10:32:30 am

I agree. The fear of becoming one of the targets is something I feel like a lot of people consider, which is why they rather just stand back and let things happen.

Warren D
10/29/2025 02:23:06 pm

I agree with what she said becasue the ones that are targeted are the ones who show any fear.

Alfaro K 1A
10/29/2025 12:45:24 pm

I agree with you, I think it takes courage to stop a person.

Carpenter Z 2A
10/30/2025 09:16:08 pm

I agree with this having the courage to stand up for someone is very difficult also I agree with people fearing to stand up because they to don't want to get bullied.

kordae 2a
10/29/2025 10:15:49 am

I agree because the do that because they hurt

Watson, S 1A
10/29/2025 10:18:14 am

Being the person who stands up for the person getting bullied is harder than being the person who just stands and watches because taking action and saying something takes a lot of courage. Being confident that what the bully is wrong and actually doing something about it could be scary, but knowing that it is wrong/something you wouldn't want done to you helps you fall out of the scared mindset.

Martinez G 7B
10/29/2025 12:05:03 pm

I agree because there are so many people who don't have enough courage. They do want to help but they are afraid of the outcomes. But you don't need courage to stand up for someone, you just need to want to help.

mariah Torrence 6b
11/6/2025 12:18:14 pm

I agree with this because it dosnt take much to stand up for another person sometimes all you have to do is say a couple words

Rubio I 1A
10/29/2025 12:26:04 pm

Yes I very much agree with your statement the confidence in telling the bully what they might be doing is wrong can be very scary for many individuals, but also yes knowing that its something you wouldn't want be done to you and how you'd want someone to step up for you if you couldn't should help you get out of that scared mindset to not speak up and help.

Newbill , T 1A
10/29/2025 10:22:19 am

Most of the time people think its easier to just watch someone get bullied rather than stop and help , because is a chance that you could get bullied next . People often worry about what others think more than standing up for someone and doing what's right. It's easier to be a bystander because getting involved risk yourself . And just because you stand up for someone doesn't mean the bullying stops , it could get worse for the person your trying to help .

collier a , 6b
11/5/2025 08:49:18 am

With the question say something or be a bystander . all it is it a question of you or them . anxitey does cause people to think about what people think of us , and i think that saying something challenges that.

Krystal V 2A
10/29/2025 10:30:36 am

Standing up for someone is harder than just standing by because usually the people getting bullied are deemed "losers" or "outcasts" by the larger majority and people (not directly involved already) don't want to add themselves as a target. People are constantly seeking validation and acceptance and going against the "flow" of what the majority stand for/think/believe in would just isolate them. Therefore, standing by or even joining in on the bulling would make people "like" them more or at least give them a sense of belonging.

Banda N 1A
10/29/2025 11:15:15 am

Exactly helping will always be risky because of becoming a target. Joining in and standing by lowers the risk of you being the next one they bully. Its sad but that's the way it is.

Banda N 1A
10/29/2025 11:04:34 am

Standing up to someone is harder simply because the bullying could be directed to you. Watching something happen's usually has no consequences towards you but getting involved does. It's scary knowing whats happening to one person could happen to you if you get involved.

Garcia K 1A
10/29/2025 11:19:19 am

i agree it could be very scary to think that you involving yourself and doing something nice to someone could give you consequences and get you bullied.

Alfaro K 1A
10/29/2025 12:47:25 pm

I agree with you, I think many people fear that defending others will also cause them problems.

Fraire.Y 1A
10/30/2025 09:00:51 am

Getting to be the person involved what no one has been getting involved is scary because like you said you never know if the bullying will get directed towards you .

Taylor, M. 7B
10/30/2025 12:26:23 pm

This is true, and also sad to realize.

Martinez G 7B
10/30/2025 12:38:10 pm

I agree with people having consequences because they stick up to bullying. At school, a lot of teachers care more about the people standing up to a bully, than the actual bullying.

Gracie Ramos
10/31/2025 03:36:57 pm

I agree with your opinion on how it's easy to stand by and do nothing because unlike standing up for a person, to stand by has no potential consequences and risks towards yourself. Which is why standing up for a person is hard for people because of the risk factors that might result from that action.

Garcia K 1A
10/29/2025 11:17:50 am

Standing up to someone is much harder than just standing by and watching because if you stand up to someone that's you involving yourself and possibly getting bullied as well, but watching something happen has no consequences and people just see it as the easiest and best route.

Cervantes Y 2A
10/29/2025 11:37:09 am

standing up for someone makes it harder because you have to be brave enough to confront someone face to face

Martinez G 7B
10/29/2025 11:56:27 am

There are a lot of reasons why standing up for someone is harder than standing by. Sticking up to a bully for someone else could possibly lead to them bullying you as well. There are also a lot of people who only think about themselves and they don't help others.

Luna W 1A
10/31/2025 09:03:48 am

I agree with this because in most situations people who stand up for others, they end up getting bullied as well.

Joaquin J 2A
10/29/2025 12:13:12 pm

A lot of times it is hard to standup for people becuase of the fact there are always people teaming up making fun of just one person and the people who stand up for them.

Carpenter Z 2A
10/30/2025 09:13:42 pm

I agree with this its hard to go 1 vs 4 or more you got nobody to lean on or help you up if standing up for someone doesn't go how you think it should have.

Tylen G
10/29/2025 12:18:52 pm

I agree because just standing by when someone is being bullied can be harmful to the victim, encourage the bully, and negatively affect the bystander themselves.

Rubio I 1A
10/29/2025 12:19:29 pm

I believe what makes standing up for someone harder than standing by is that standing up can also bring negative attention to you, it can make the bully that you are defending the victim from start bullying you and for many this can make people double guess themselves when trying to stand up for a friend or peer.

Warren D 3A
10/29/2025 12:38:49 pm

I agreee with what you said about bullying being in all diffent forms becuase i see it and feel it but not as often as i used to.

Alfaro, K 1A
10/29/2025 12:41:51 pm

standing up is more difficult than remaining impassive because when you defend someone, you too can suffer emotional or other problems. I also believe it takes a lot of courage to defend someone, but remaining passive will do more harm to that person than avoiding the work of defending them and being able to help.

Taneilyha Jones-Blunt
10/29/2025 03:41:11 pm

it is harder to stand up for someone than stand by because you may become the target and most people don't want that

mariah torrence 6b
11/6/2025 12:07:33 pm

I agree standing up for someone can be hard because it takes courage and it can put you in things that you don't want to be in but not helping could get someone else harmed worse in the long run

Fraire.Y 1A
10/30/2025 08:58:47 am

Standing by and watching someone get bullyed is the easy way out of getting bullyed ,because if you jump in you will probably start to get bullyed as well they will make you feel less about yourself because you just wanted to stop someones bullying .

collier a 6B
11/5/2025 08:46:28 am


I agree standing by is easier , standing by allows you not to be a target but by saying something you become one .

kordae 4a
11/6/2025 12:02:21 pm

i agree

Skylar B. 6B
10/30/2025 09:16:02 am

I think what makes standing up for others harder than standing by is the fear of potentially being the next target and having anxiety about conflict. People tend to look the other way, especially when it involves confrontation, many of them know it wrong but are scared of being the next target of the bully.

Gracie Ramos
10/31/2025 03:31:36 pm

I agree, confrontation is a hard thing to do because it's so anxiety inducing. This is a significant reason why I think it's hard for people to stand up to a person because of the intense conflict.

Taylor, M. 7B
10/30/2025 12:23:39 pm

It's harder to stand up for someone then to standby and watch or laugh because it requires you to be different. You have to have the courage to do so and it isn't "cool'.

Carpenter Z 2A
10/30/2025 09:11:16 pm

Standing up for someone is harder because you have to show the bravery and courage which may result in conflict later on and some people dont want that.

Luna W 1A
10/31/2025 09:13:14 am

This is very true, not many people have bravery and courge to face bullies or any type of conflict.

kordae
11/6/2025 12:01:59 pm

i agree with this statement

Perell White 1A
10/31/2025 09:12:55 am

Standing up for someone is harder than standing by because it often involves a greater personal risk. When you stand up for someone, you might face negative consequences, such as cyperbullying, verbal attacks, or even physical harm. This is in contrast to standing by, which is a passive act that typically doesn't involve any personal risk.

Gracie Ramos
10/31/2025 03:25:59 pm

For many people it can be harder to stand up for someone then to be a bystander, because by standing up for someone it takes courage and bravery and it can cause you to become a target and get bullied.

Gracie Ramos
10/31/2025 03:29:10 pm

For many people it can be harder to stand up for someone than to be a bystander. If you were going to stand up to someone it takes courage and strength to be able to defend a person, which is hard for some people. And if you were to stand up for someone it can ultimately cause you to become a target and get bullied.

Collier , A 6B
11/5/2025 08:40:50 am

It is harder to say something and get involved because , You dont know what can happen, a fight and that would mean putting yourself in situation you don't have to be in . That takes energy , and may cost you .

Mariah torrence 6b
11/6/2025 11:59:31 am

standing up for someone is harder than standing by them because it takes more courage standing by shows support but standing up means speaking out and risking conflict or judgment. its harder because it requires a real stand up person

kordae 4a
11/6/2025 12:01:11 pm

it does not cool to joke on people because you don't know what they are going through


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